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*r.issues21
writes:Hi I'm basically a little worried about my new gf we've been dating for about 2 weeks and I'm not sure if she is still interested in me or not she's 8 years my senior but we both like anoqther and we hit it off when we met but now it feels like she's avoiding me or something she told me she was sectioned due to mental health issues in the past and I've noticed her behavior changes when she drinks I don't know what to do, I really wanna be there to support her and I've mentioned my true feelings to her but it feels like there isn't much there any advice at all will be appreciated thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2012): Yeah i'm 20 by the way, we don't really care about the age gap or atleast i dont anyways it just sucks the way things are sometimes i guess, i wanna support her and stuff but i'm just not sure what to do i've had many failed relationships in the past and i don't want this one to be a failure either...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 May 2012):
 Two weeks is not a long period of time to know someone or even call them a bf or gf...
8 years at 18 means she is 26... and that for a younger male may be a bit too mature for you... even if you are 21 and she is 29 that can be a big difference at your age... not later on... the older we get the less age matters...
I'm 13+ years older than my fiance and we often don't notice the age gap...
My bigger concern for you is that she drinks... if it's excessive and causes personality changes you may want to tread carefully with her...
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reader, kingjoe king  +, writes (20 May 2012):
 i know love has no condition but what on earth are you thinking that made u endup with a lady 8yrs above your age...do you expect love?...the best advice i would give is to let her go..it wont work and if you try to make it work you wont like the outcome...look for people you can handle and not for somebody u cant...forget about her ill health but young man..she is not your size
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