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I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

Q.   I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

A.   26 October 2010: Oh, I can't wait to see the fall out on this nuclear war...keep in touch, this should be entertaining ;-)... (read in full...)

I'm 54 and need to know...how do women really feel about a guy with a beer belly?

Q.   How do women feel about men with a medium size so called beer belly? Hard to get rid of and be a stud at 54? Does it really matter that much?...

A.   21 February 2008: I work out and take good care of myself, keep myself thin, and in the past I have always disregarded men with a belly, it is not a turn on. However, last Fall I met a man who is chubby (although not a beer belly), and I am so completely head over ... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to the maturity of older women, is this normal?

Q.   I wonderd about this and i think finally that i was right all along. I like older wemon, it's because i don't like the imature actions of a lot of the girls at my school and thus making me not like them. But older women i have been around even if ...

A.   21 February 2008: Absolutely normal, I'm with a man who is 8 years younger, and we are truly in love, he feels like he met his best friend. ... (read in full...)

I read her secret diary

Q.   In my wife dairy, she has a crush for a marry man at her work. In the dairy she stated that how much she love his smell, touch, and hug. She also mention that she have problem concentrating at work when he is around and dream about making love to ...

A.   24 October 2007: Karlos, you are right on. I completely agree that you have bitten into forbidden fruit and have totally stepped completely out of line by reading her journal! Whew, makes me mad just thinking about it. You've got a lot more explaining to do th... (read in full...)

No comfort for losing secret love

Q.   Had been having ... hate to use the word affair.. a REALLY close friendship with a married man.. it had been going on for 9 years.. recently I had insisted on complete platonic (two years of platonic) relationship due to a new relationship that i ...

A.   24 October 2007: gmapeaches,figured I would step out of the female anonymous and into the aunt setting. I am a bit older than you, and have unfortunately felt the crushing blow of the sudden unexpected loss of the greatest loves of my life, my lover and both of my ... (read in full...)

Is our affair all right? He is married but not living with her.

Q.   Well, I am not asking for the "morally right" answer, but just varying opinions. Let me start by saying that neither of us are children, in the 40-50 area. At this point in our lives, we have lived through many different situations, and honestly, ...

A.   3 October 2007: Also, drastic, please note that marrying a US citizen does not automatically make them a citizen or give them permanent living status, but it does for the child. This will be valuable (hopefully - lol).... (read in full...)

Is our affair all right? He is married but not living with her.

Q.   Well, I am not asking for the "morally right" answer, but just varying opinions. Let me start by saying that neither of us are children, in the 40-50 area. At this point in our lives, we have lived through many different situations, and honestly, ...

A.   3 October 2007: Thank you for all of your opinions, and I invite more. Yes, anon, it could become difficult as we are already more than a little in love. Phil, you are close, not spot on, but I have not pushed the issue with my friend, they are decisions for him ... (read in full...)

Five year old girl masturbating, is this normal?

Q.   Is it okay or normal for a 5 year old girl to masturbate, I see her in her bed humping at night and wanted to know how to handle? Thank you....

A.   25 July 2007: Yes, please realize that this is absolutely normal. I wish that I had at hand the name of the author/title of book, but there are quality studies about this, and it is quite well known in child development. I urge you to research this to place ... (read in full...)

I've messed up big time and get sick thinking about what I've done. Now my husband despises me. Help!

Q.   I am a woman aged 45. I have been married for 25 yrs and I have done a really really stupid thing. I was in my local watering hole recently (my husband had gone home)I was annoyed with him and I was also menstral,hated the world etc. I got so drunk ...

A.   24 July 2007: You are not alone, and yes, I agree that many women (myself included) have gotten quite tanked and made out with other women, when otherwise quite straight, thank you. It sounds as if they are acting as if this is some sort of grossly unusual ... (read in full...)

He is mad about a one night stand that happened 7 years ago!

Q.   10 Years ago I went out with this lad for 3 years, we had a very volatile relationship, we were always finishing, but was strange as we did really love each other and the sex was always great, 1 of the times we split up for 3 months a during that ...

A.   13 July 2007: Honey, I have been in that type of a relationship before. The sex was intense, when it was good, it was very good, and when the @#$%% hit the fan... Get out now dear, sooner or later, it will get worse. This guy is a jerk. Only by getting far ... (read in full...)

The new guy I'm seeing is amazing! The problem is my friends - they say he's too ugly for me and that I'll end up hurting him!

Q.   i have being seeing a guy who i think is amazing. We seem to get on so well, and have such a connection. All the past guys i have dated have all been boring and i he just makes me laugh so much. I love spending time with him, but problem is none of ...

A.   11 July 2007: Your friends sound very immature. You also would be so if you listened to them. One day, you may regret giving up someone that you have such a connection with for a silly reason such as the way your friends feel he looks. Years later, you may ... (read in full...)

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