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writes:Hi. Im a 16 year old boy. Im attracted to men as well as women. When i maturbate i think about men, but then sometimes i automatically think about women. I seem to look at women sexually as well as men. What does this mean? I'd be grateful for any replies. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): Hey. I know what your going through right now. I'm 19 and I'm a lesbian. From when I was about 13 I started feeling the same way you do at the moment. I wouldn't think to much of it right now. I think it's just best to go with the flow and sooner or later you will realise what you like and what you don't. Alot of teens go through stages in their life were they are attracted to the same sex. This may only be a stage for you. It might pass, It might not. Even if it doesn't. Just be proud of who you are and don't let others put you down for you sexuality. Sexuality is a personal choice, Your own. So if others don't like it, Don't change who you are for them. Just be yourself =] If your family and friend love you they will accept you no matter what your sexuality is. I hope I've been some help to you
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 It means you like sex. Big deal. You don't need a label. You're YOU. Do what you want, with whomever you want (and can get to cooperate) and find out what works for you and for them. Eventually your life will settle down into some kind of a pattern and you'll find where you "belong".
But PLEASE don't try to pin any labels on yourself at this age. They only get in the way of you becoming who you really are. And don't accept any labels from anyone else, either!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): This could be the start of you realising that you are a bi-sexual but it could also just be a phase. At 16 sex can be a subject a lot think about as we turn from teenagers into adults. So don't worry about it it's probably just a phase.P.S. if you are bi-sexual don't worry about it, there's nothing wrong with it and nothing to be ashamed about.
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