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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I saw my boyfriend for the first time in a while yesturday and we were going to keep it a secret us seeing each other as he has just come out of a relationship. his ex girlfriend has moved on already and has got a new boyfriend, when he came to mine to see me someone saw us and they dont know that he split up with his girlfriend. I am scared that it is going to look like he has been cheating on his girlfriend but he hasnt and also his ex girlfriends mate hates me and if she finds out that we are getting back together it will cause loads of trouble for me even though she has moved on and he wants to the fact that i was his first proper girl friend makes it worse what can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): It doesn't matter whether your boyfriend's ex's mate hates you or not as she isn't (and shouldn't) be involved in this. I know that she's mates with your boyfriend's ex but after all she never actually had a relationship with your boyfriend, it's her mate (his ex) who did. So she should just back out of this. As for a person seeing you, you and your boyfriend should tell his ex that it was after, not during, the relationship. At the end of the day why should his ex care, if she's moved on and got herself another boyfriend why should she care so much about her ex's relationship?
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reader, nologo  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 At the moment there is nothing you can do.
Why will it cause loads of trouble for you?
He has just come out of a relationship and started dating you.
Ex girlfriend has moved on already and has got a new boyfriend.
Has he been cheating on his girlfriend meaning you? NO!
Why should you care about his ex girlfriends mate.
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