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writes:Okay, well to begin with the truth, i am a 15 year old girl and i really like this 18 year old boy.. he tells me he really likes me too, and that he always wants to see me... we've met, and we're not together, but we always tell each other how much we like each other, we've known each other for a year.. occasionally he tells me he loves me and once or twice i told him the same, but mostly tell him that he's sweet for saying so... my problem is, i cant keep this a secret and i have a boyfriend!! but the 18 year old doesn't know, and he's always holding my hand and kissing me on the cheek when we're together.. i don't know what to do. i love my boyfriend so much, but i don't want to lose touch with the 18 year old... what to do!! by the way, it might also be wrong that im 15 and hes 18, but i tell myself its better than being 13 and talking to someone who was 30.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (4 June 2011):
 Let's just put this in a way that might help you decide what to do:
"Okay, well to begin with the truth, i am a 15 year old boy and i really like this 18 year old girl.. she tells me she really likes me too, and that she always wants to see me... we've met, and we're not together, but we always tell each other how much we like each other, we've known each other for a year.. occasionally she tells me she loves me and once or twice i told her the same, but mostly tell her that she's sweet for saying so... my problem is, i cant keep this a secret and i have a girlfriend!! [that girlfriend being you] but the 18 year old doesn't know, and she's always holding my hand and kissing me on the cheek when we're together.. i don't know what to do. i love my girlfriend so much, but i don't want to lose touch with the 18 year old... what to do!! by the way, it might also be wrong that im 15 and shes 18, but i tell myself its better than being 13 and talking to someone who was 30."
So. If this was what your boyfriend wrote into DearCupid, what would you advise him? What should he do? How would that make you feel?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (4 June 2011):
 you are not being fair to your boyfriend or the 18 year old, they do not even know about each other. it is time to make a choice - you cannot have both of them.
you are playing both these guys and it is not fair. imagine how you would feel if you were being played like this. look at both guys and figure out who is the best person for you to be with, make your choice and let the other one go and get on with his life
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