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writes:Okay, I feel like I'm in love with a guy i have barely talked to before. I just see him in passing every once in a while, but all i can do is think about him. I'm just so scared to make a move. What should I do?
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reader, bardia +, writes (13 February 2012):
 Life is short. Chances are worth taking. I asked a lot of guys out, tried to start things--it didn't quite work out, but I was stronger for taking the initiative. However, I'll play devil's advocate and say that I've also found that a guy that makes the first move is really worth it. Drop a few hints with this one to get on his radar or just jump in head-first and take the chance. If you don't risk it, you'll never know. Don't be too crushed if he doesn't reciprocate, but you just never know...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2012): First Find out if he is into you talk to him as normal friends in the beggining you didnt spoke or talked to him so you don't know what he's reaction will be if its good my first love was also at age 14 with this guy i never talked to him but i was a kinda stalker im shy and didnt want him too find out but then I realize he was one of the "bad guys" when he find out that im in love with him he made my first year in highschool misrable but that was all gone cause i was younge and didnt mind anything so try to be friends first with him like i said and see how he reacts maybe you change about your feelings , im sorry for my english
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (13 February 2012):
 I think that the person who feels that they liked the person a lot should be the one to make the first move. If I have my eye on someone, I will make the first move. If I happen to not have my eye on someone, but someone sees me, even if they are a woman, I would like them to make the first move, so I at least know they exist. I understand that as a 14 year old girl, and would understand that back in highschool, doesn't really just up and talk to guys. Given that fact, I would talk back to her immediately and make it easier for her. What I am saying is that I believe he will do the same thing. Guys don't need to worry about aggressive women, generally. What they need tow orry about is the woman that likes them might be too timid!Don't be timid, just say hi. If you say hi, he will have a hint. Or, talk to him and ask him out! Whichever you prefer, but at least make sure you say hi.
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reader, BeckySmith101  +, writes (13 February 2012):
well, first off, is he older than you? if he is he might hang out with older guys which can be embarrassing. just get to know him a lot better and he should see the fun in you. after a while, try breaking the touch barrier to show that you like him. this shoudl be subtle enough. if this doesn't work then yes, make the first move. but do it when your alone. otherwise it could get VERY ugly.
hope this helps!
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