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writes:Hi i am new here just need some advice on this. I have been sleeping with a man for 2 years, we were boyfriend/girlfriend then somehow ended up fwbs. i hadnt saw him for a few weeks so i text him and asked him if he had slept with someone else, he replied yes he had, so i deleted his number. then he came round mine unexpected i was getting ready to go for a night out, he always liked to come round when id been out. so i text him i was home heard nothing from him, that was 2 weeks ago then got a text off him wanting sex which i ignored. this has been going on 2 years on and off all the time what should i do? thank you
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reader, human_male  +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Fairly simple, unless you enjoy being used like this, or think the sex makes it worth it you should cut off all contact with him.
That includes sleeping with him.
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reader, Beile  +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Damn.
He sounds more of a sex buddy.
And well, he's treating you like a booty call.
Only calling/texting you when he wants sex.
The best thing you can do is to ask that fucker to get lost.
Ignore him or send a message to cut off all ties with him.
He doesn't seem to be a friend with benefits.
Just ask him to get out of your life.
He's just not worth keeping as a FWBS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): That's easy OP, if you want to keep sleeping with him, keep getting your ego stroked and have this guy turn up any time he's feeling horny then just keep doing what you're doing.
If you've had enough of this and don't want him in your life anymore tell him no uncertain terms to fuck off. Tell him you're blocking him, don't ignore his texts tell him go fuck himself and if he keeps doing it tell him you'll have him charged with harassment which you can very easily do in the UK OP the laws are very strict about unwanted attention there but you will not get anywhere legally if you haven't made it clear to him never to contact you again.
"Hey baby, can't stop thinking about you, can I call over?" "Go fuck yourself dickhead, I want nothing to do with you, stop fucking texting me or I'll have you charged, do not fucking respond to this text, you useless prick."
"hey it's me again I respect your decision but know I still care about you."
"Get fucked wanker and stop messaging me, you have one more chance until I take all these texts to the cops, piss off."
That should do it.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Hi
Just carry on as you were,ignoring him,you were right to.If he turns up again just tell him to go away.He's only using you when he has nobody else for sex.Get on with your life and forget the loser
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Leave and commit to yourself that you are not going to sell yourself that low. Respect and dignity is important don't give it away.
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