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He said lets get to know each other but that was 2 months ago and no contact since!

Q.   A guy I was quite close to got back in touch with me in January this year after we hadn't spoke for a couple of years I had helped him through a mutual friend to get a job and he obviously found out So anyway we started talking again etc but th...

A.   12 March 2016: I don't want to be harsh but, chances are the coffee was out of courtesy for your help in landing him a job. But just to double check with your context; Your mutual friend helped him out, and he found out you were the most responsible ... (read in full...)

He's changed. I'm not sure whether he loves me now. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Ever since I have finished my major examinations, he became unhappy that I spent more time with my friends/Computer and afterwards unhappy about me not taking enough initiatives. And then about hi...

A.   18 December 2012: Well the problems before about the comp and friends have been solved. But is just that problems just keep on appearing. Fortunately, I'm not the one who called him. He called me first. He made the effort to call but he doesn't say anything. ... (read in full...)

I like this girl a lot but she keeps changing her mind about what she wants. What should I do?

Q.   was wondering if people could advise me as im confused and depressed by this situation. i've been seeing this girl. we slept together a couple of times and it all seemed good. then she suddenyl started being busy- going to parties and stuf...

A.   13 November 2012: I'm sorry. She's just not the girl for you. She seems to be that wild type of girl who would just wanna have fun. Disregarding serious relationship. She likes to meet guys in parties and have a one night stand with them. (Not going as couple ... (read in full...)

How do you find a trustworthy guy? It is making me want to give up on men completely....

Q.   Hi, I know this is probably going to get a bit of hate, because I know that I'm stereotyping men in a negative way, but it's just how it is, I'm sorry. :/ I kind of need advice on the future - I have kind of a damaging view of men, that makes ...

A.   13 November 2012: Simply put, Let the guys savour the main course (Personality etc) before the desert (Sexually) If you give them the desert, they wouldn't feel like eating the Main Course any more. When jumping into a relationship, you do not satisfy them wit... (read in full...)

Ignoring me then texting me wanting sex, this has been going on for 2 years! What should I do?

Q.   Hi i am new here just need some advice on this. I have been sleeping with a man for 2 years, we were boyfriend/girlfriend then somehow ended up fwbs. i hadnt saw him for a few weeks so i text him and asked him if he had slept with someone else, he ...

A.   13 November 2012: Damn. He sounds more of a sex buddy. And well, he's treating you like a booty call. Only calling/texting you when he wants sex. The best thing you can do is to ask that fucker to get lost. Ignore him or send a message to cut off all ties with... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but how do we get the spark back? I felt that spark with another guy and was tempted.

Q.   Hi there, I've not written anything here in a while - I've not needed to! I've been in a happy and stable relationship for two and a half years. However I've had something playing on my mind and I need to get it out. My other half went to Can...

A.   11 October 2012: Oh my, you're in the same situation as me. I was about to write in something related to that issue. Just like Person12345 said, It's the Newness, not the Guy. Things do get boring after awhile, so it's time to do something new. If ... (read in full...)

Is he just being nice, or am I being oblivious?

Q.   So theres a guy who I've known and been talking to for around half a year now. We live far away from each other but have seen each other a few times when I come home as it is close to where he lives, and we talk pretty much everyday online. The ...

A.   19 March 2012: Well he could be trying to tell you something. But you would have to see how he acts around you and other people. If there's a difference, it's a good sign. Most guys don't really send messages with lots of love etc. They would usually save... (read in full...)

Does this guy like me? and how do I respond?

Q.   Seriously confusing guy here aunts. i've known this guy for some time from school. he's a bit of a show off and a clown who likes to make fun of people. hes never really noticed me (we never were friends and we never have seen each other outs...

A.   12 February 2012: Well, it's quite evident that he likes you. Being touchy-feely,acting like a gentleman, trying to get your attention, glancing at you and teasing. This are all tell-tale signs of him liking you. What can you do about it? If you don't like hi... (read in full...)

Could he still like me?

Q.   Do you think this man still likes me ?. I saw him tonight, when i was out with another guy. I'm not dating the guy that i was out with. We have only just met, so we are friends, but i don't know if anything else will happen. This man asked if the ...

A.   15 December 2011: Hi there, If the guy is persistent about asking who the guy you were out with is, and how he is related to you etc, that tells alot. He does like you. He probably left because of that guy you were with. Cause honestly, when you see someone... (read in full...)

A complicated love triangle! Help!

Q.   Hi. I'd been best friends with him for awhile and then started to like him. I told him I liked him. He said he liked another girl. Then a month later he stopped liking her. He came over to my house and we made out a few times. In a couple of ...

A.   25 June 2011: Hello, He's using you. Like what he said. From what you wrote, It's looks like he's treating you like a toy. The possible reason why he gets jealous is that he doesn't like to share his "toy". Which is quite much he wants to keep you ... (read in full...)

How can I forget my ex?

Q.   how can i forget my past relationship?...even if i love him so much?..can you give me some ways?...

A.   24 June 2011: It's hard to forget. But try this out: The best way is to distract yourself by hanging out with your friends, going for activities. Remove or stash away items that reminds you of him. With such items out of the way, you wouldn't think that ... (read in full...)

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