I have always been conscious of how my vagina looks, and now my boyfriend has insulted the way it looks! How do I overcome this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly a year now, we've had sex, taken part in oral sex on both parts. But the other day we had just had penetrative sex, so I was just led on the bed naked my legs slightly apart on my front, dozing slightly. ...
A. 4 April 2013: I've seen more than my fair share and belive me, they're all beautiful!
in fact larger and longer labia feel better when having sex...they seem to be wrapped around your shaft adding to the intensity and sensations. my guess is he just hasn't seen... (read in full...)
Vitamin supplements that could help improve my memory?
Q. Hey everyone, Just a heads up its not a relationship question,but they are so many wise people out here,so I thought I would reach out to you guys.. So I have a very very important and life changing exam in december,and I'm putting in a lot of work...
A. 29 October 2012: a vitamin B complex daily with an Omega3/fish oil capsule daily, harmless but known to aid nervous and Brian function. I did it and now my sons do it, lots of articles on it. Take both every morning for 3/4 weeks before.
Improves cortex func... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's behavior has changed, I need some advice.
Q. Hi Everyone, Hope you can help, Ive been seeing my girlfriend for about 18 months - we will live an hour from each other - plus for a long part of this I used to work away so seeing each other was not easy. But at the weekend I would try ...
A. 22 September 2012: It's not what you want to hear...but she's just not that into you..
move on..... (read in full...)
B/f and I have been into swinging and I HATE it!
Q. About 4 - 5 years ago, me and my boyfriend of 6 years decided to finally try swinging after playing around with the idea for a while. I was scared out of my mind that I was actually going to go through with it, but chalked it up to newbie nerves. ...
A. 30 August 2012: 3 pieces of advice, please please please heed them:
LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE
what he is doing is abuse of the worst kind pure and simple, he does not care for you, get out..good luck, you deserve better.... (read in full...)
I think my husband had gay sex with our dinner guest!
Q. I have a bigger problem than my last one now! I think my husband of 4 years is having a gay affair! Ive talked to him, but to no avail, we just end up arguing, let me start from the beginning, 3 weeks ago, he kept making excuses to go out, 2 weeks ...
A. 28 July 2012: I don't think you're being paranoid...it seems pretty 'in your face'...confront him... you need to know...because unless you smelled rubber too...they're not using condoms and consequently he's putting your health at risk. good luck!... (read in full...)
It's early days for us. So am I worrying for no reason, over his reaction to me touching his phone?
Q. Am I concerned for no reason? Its fairly early days for me and another guy I met online but we have now met up 3 times (have known each other now for a couple of months). Last night we slept together he stayed at mine. He left his mobile phone ...
A. 27 July 2012: my gut tells me he is definitely seeing someone else as a minimum, He Is probably married or cohabiting...ask him directly, tell him you don't want to ge hurt or hurt anyone else. sorry, good luck.... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: ok for you to ask him out... not ok for hm to accept unless he leaves her first.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend mentally abusive because he cannot forget my escort past
Q. This situation is extremely complicated, but here goes. I am currently teetering on the verge of insanity due to an extremely psychologically, and emotionally abusive relationship with a man who cannot forget my past as an escort. I met this man...
A. 5 July 2012: Get out of this relationship... dump him... kick him out, change the locks.. his welfare isn't your problem... get out of this now before you get hurt violently or do something you'll regret... you owe it to yourself and your family.. get out... and ... (read in full...)
Like a girl at work but she is seeing someone so I'd rather move on than be friends. So what is she doing now she claims she wants to go on another works night out soon?
Q. Hi, I really like one of my colleagues. I know this is not always a good idea, but I work in a big company and we don't work that closely together. We went out on a big works do a few weeks back and got on well but she went home early as she was ...
A. 1 May 2012: Don't talk to her about going out.... if she mentions another night out again... she's interested... if not she was just being friendly and you got the message.... (read in full...)
Any advice? he's been texting this other girl!
Q. hey, i would like abit of advice, see if people think the same as me. My hubby has a iphone and its not an unlocked phone, to use his iphone he jailbroke it and unlocked it that way so he can use his sim card in the phone. Doing this way causes his ...
A. 1 May 2012: Sounds dodgy.... he's upto something, you're also imagining the worst... confront him or 'trap' him..... (read in full...)
Is it true men love stockings and suspenders?
Q. Hi everyone I just need to ask a quick question I am planning on surprising my boyfriend. Is it true that men love stockings and suspenders? I just need some answers as I am unsure whether he would like it or not thank you ...
A. 1 May 2012: easy answer..... YES! especially with high heels, sheer stockings work best!... good luck... he's a lucky guy! :)... (read in full...)
Love him or leave him? Or would FWB work?
Q. What should I do about my new lover? I met him at Christmas time through my sisters boyfriend and although I wasn't sure at first, we ended up being lovers. As he lives in my home town (he has a four year old son who he sees as much as possible...
A. 14 February 2012: It's difficult to say because you are obviously falling for this guy... be honest with yourself though, if you can't resign yourself to it just being about a LDR with great sex and 'out of sight, out of mind' the rest of the time... what you are ... (read in full...)
Does he love me? Need to know. Will he leave his wife?
Q. I am sleeping with a married man who I have history with. He has other women in other towns as well. He says his wife doesn't sleep with him and treats him bad. He says he wants to leave her but he says she is crazy and probably would do something ...
A. 26 August 2011: oh come on girl! wake up and smell the coffee...
this guy's a user.... move on!... (read in full...)
I have Xeroderma Pigmentosum, do I have the right to fall in love?
Q. i suffer from Xeroderma Pigmentosum or XP. Its an incurable disease that deals with UV rays. I can never go in the sun, and if i do i literally burn. My disease at most has a limit of twenty years, which means in most cases a person who has XP lives ...
A. 2 August 2011: my favourite French quotation: There is no better feeling in life than to love and be loved in return. go for it honey x... (read in full...)
Threesome damage and I knew better!
Q. So, another 3some gone bad. I have history with 3somes' they ruined my first marriage. After I stopped them, he went on to have affairs. I learned my lesson and for 15 years didn't have another while in a relationship. I met my sweetheart almos...
A. 5 July 2011: drop him, start again, I will be hard I know but b grateful that you learned about him now rather than in 5 years time. he cheated on you and is trying to make it your fault, it's despicable. this was not about consenting adults.... (read in full...)
Is she just wanting to take it slowly? Am I completely missing her signals? What's going on?
Q. Just been out on a 2nd date with a girl I'm interested in. We met online so this was literally the second time we've met. Much like the first date conversation was free and easy. We laughed and joked a lot and seemed to be enjoying each others ...
A. 1 July 2011: The fact that this is a slow burn is good, you'll like each other more than if you just jump into bed.... that said, first date, peck/hug, second date, kissing... if that goes well, third date a little more passion... take the lead. when you next ... (read in full...)
How to make tossing off a boy special
Q. me and my boyfriend have decided to wait a couple of months till sex, but we are doing other things, i want to make tossing him off extra special or nice for him, any good tips or tricks that they like? ...
A. 30 June 2011: personally, using baby oil and playing with my balls at the same time! though it's different for every guy... why not ask him! good that you're going to wait and keep experimenting... tell him what you like too... it will make it special if you do ... (read in full...)
I love my wife but am no longer sexually attracted to her, what should I do?
Q. Ok, so the last thing I want is to be made to feel guilty, as I already do. All I want is some advice before I lose my mind... My wife and I have been married for 4 years and have been together for 7. We have a 2 yr old son who we both love to piece...
A. 24 June 2011: damn..... that's too bad man!..
look, if it were me... I've been there, I ended up getting divorced but I dd it Four years too late... after a string of extramarital liaisons... affairs etc... I'd say if you don't fancy her, find someone you do..... (read in full...)
How can I rebuild my trust with her after I know she's cheated on me?
Q. Ok so I confronted my girlfriend about everything she's been doing and all her lies. She told me everything. She spilled her guts and now I know everything. I have a new issue that I would like help with..How can I rebuild my trust with her after I ...
A. 19 June 2011: I'm sorry dude.... trust is like virginity, you only lose it once.... move on.... (read in full...)
My husband touches other women's butts!
Q. is it normal for my husband to touch another girls bum...
A. 18 June 2011: I'm with CaringGuy.... it's not normal, it's wrong and it's insulting and degrading both to you and the other women, he needs to sort it out and show you some respect!... (read in full...)
Best type of condoms for 1st time sex?
Q. I know this might sound a bit of a weird quesiton, but what (if there are any) are the best type of condoms to use for your first time? My boyfriend (who is 2 years older than me) have planned to have sex together for the first time next week - h...
A. 18 June 2011: try 'skyns' they're made by mates, they're not the cheapest but are the best... they're non-latex made of a type of cellophane. my gf says they feel like I'm not wearing one... they are the most realistic feeling for me.
you can get them in Boot... (read in full...)
He broke off our date and then decided to meet. What's he thinking now?
Q. Hello, I was seeing someone about 4/5 years ago. Only went out for 4 months. Hardly saw him due to shifts and because he just wasn't bothered. We remained friends and I would be happy for him if he met someone else. So there's no feelings on my p...
A. 15 June 2011: Deal with them separately... first the 4/5 years ago guy... hate to be cynical, but my guess is that he's either bored in his relationship or has broken up with someone... the 'are you single?' question for a guy is a green light to try and reignite ... (read in full...)
An ex-lover sent me a friend request on facebook...I am married-is it appropriate to accept?
Q. Is it okay to accept the friend request of an ex lover on facebook even if im married already?...
A. 24 May 2011: I think that the answer is No.... unless you still want. have some sort of relationship with the ex... that's a whole different thing... safer to decline.... (read in full...)
If the first time you meet a guy he talks about sex, is that all he wants from you?
Q. I have a couple of questions. If you meet a guy in a bar, and he mentions sex the first time he meets you, does that mean he is only after sex, or could it also mean that he finds you sexually attractive but could possibly want a relationship with ...
A. 24 May 2011: if you don't just want sex.... then make for the high ground.... because I guarantee he does!... (read in full...)
Am I addicted or is this just a phase?
Q. i think i am addicted to sex. me and my bf have been going with each other for 7 months and it is quite serious. he is absolutely great at sex. not only does he have a huge package but he knows how to touch me and lick me. he sends me crazy an...
A. 10 May 2011: it's just love.... my girlfriend and I have been like that for two years now, we can't leave each other alone! send pictures, call all the time and hav sex about 8 times a week... on holiday we were at it it about 4 or 5 time. day! if it' not ... (read in full...)
We have a two-year-old daughter. Should I stay or go?
Q. I'm in a relationship with my partner and have been for 5 years. We have a 2 year old daughter. The problem is that he's working a lot and we have a lot of debt. This is putting a strain on our relationship. We've had sex about 4 times in 3 ...
A. 7 May 2011: it's only my opinion... I don't believe a relationship without sex works, you should be able to set each other alight every so often! tell him how you feel, if he still won't see a counsellor with you or on his own... then sadly, it's not going to ... (read in full...)
Other men have turned the tables on me when they are guilty ones. Is this a similar situation?
Q. My husband of two years says I am trying to constrict and control him because on occasion, and I do mean maybe 2 days out of five, ask where he is. The reason I ask is that because I cannot sell my home and my child goes to a local school we do not ...
A. 7 May 2011: He does sound overly defensive... it's likely he's trying to hide something, I'd suggest that you go with your gut, you're the one in the situation and your gut feel is likely to be right. it does sound like me in a previous relationship... when ... (read in full...)
She told me that her ex's looked better than mine??
Q. Quick question for the guys. And unfortunately this has happened to me so thats why im asking. What would you do if you recently started dating a girl that you really liked and she really liked you back and during a conversation she told you that ...
A. 26 April 2011: I'm with caring guy on this.... dump her!... (read in full...)
Give me an idea for a text to cheer up my bf!!
Q. What is something really sweet that i could text my boyfriend to help make his day better?...
A. 24 March 2011: if you really love him.... "the way I love you is frightening, it's like thunder and lightning... I love you, have a good day my darling xxx" ...brought a test to my eye! ... (read in full...)
Should I let him film us having sex?
Q. Ok,It would be extra helpful if some guys could answer this question,if you had a video of you and a girl having sex,would you show it to anybody-I've been seeing this guy and he's been knagging me to make a video with him for about a month now,he ...
A. 20 March 2011: you can't trust him, don't do it, you'll regret it later. he has ulterior motives... please believe me.!... (read in full...)
Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?
Q. Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been...
A. 4 March 2011: Go now, once a cheater always.... I have no idea ho strong you're having to be with kids and all this information... Hang in here, be a little stronger and kick him out.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex! Am I too demanding or am I right to question him?
Q. Okay so, this is kind of awkward but I really want people’s opinions... I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and everything is really great, we get on well and he makes me really happy :) There is only one problem...he barely ever want...
A. 3 March 2011: You need more sex, he needs less.... It's a mis match... I know, I was married to an ex who didn't want sex.. Just cuddling... We ended up growing out of the habit... I needed more... Finally we divorced... My girlfriend and I have been together 18 ... (read in full...)
Does my gym instructor like me or not?
Q. Guys Out of curiosity as I am confused about it. I went weeks ago to this gym class for the first time. As it was my first time I didn't know all the exercises the instructor(who btw is cute) was showing me all the time and paying no attention to ...
A. 3 March 2011: He's flirting..... To keep you in class..... (read in full...)
My team mate and girlfriend are close, is it all in my head?
Q. Okay, I don't really know what to start but its a very long and complicated problem between me and my partner, mainly around me struggling with trust issues. I have been with my girlfriend for 2, coming on to 3 years now. Everything was p...
A. 3 March 2011: She's cheating on you dude, you either have to accept it and hope it will all be over when you go abroad or move on.
Personally... I'd move on. Sorry.... (read in full...)
Is grinding with other guys considered as cheating?
Q. I have a boyfriend and I have girls night out sometimes. So here's my question: Grinding/dancing with other guys considered as cheating? I mean, i wouldn't want my bf to be upset if i dance with other guys but my gfs tell me it's fine... what are ...
A. 1 March 2011: Look..... It's cheating, you know it is, so would he if he knew...... (read in full...)
How can he go home and not feel guilty after being with me?
Q. I just wonder why a man doesn't feel bad when he is cheating on his wife? I have been with a married man recently who claims he has no problems in his marriage, but he chooses to sleep with me. I know what some of you will say about me, but my ...
A. 1 March 2011: I'm no prude.... But look at what you're doing... He does it because he can.. He obviously ha problems in his marriage and rather than deal with them or divorce he goes with you. What happens when you get married to a great guy and then discover ... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair with a married man who's now in love with me...
Q. I have been having an affair with a married man for nearly a year now, I am a single girl and this just started as a bit of fun, but in the last few months he has been telling me that he is so in love with me . He has been married for a year and a ...
A. 1 March 2011: He was married when you met him and that was wrong of him, divorce happens for many reasons... He has a young child and that puts pressure on a marriage, seeing you may be his way of releiving some of that, you need to stay out of the marriage, if ... (read in full...)
I only attract attached men!
Q. I'm a reasonably attractive, university educated, independent woman in my mid 20's, i'd say i'm humorous, chilled out, my years in 'customer service' have led me to have an understanding of people- i'd say i'm an extremely loyal friend, and about as ...
A. 6 January 2011: where and how you meet these guys has lot to do with it, guys who cheat are attracted to bars, clubs etc.. they are also attracted to women who portray an image of availability, up for a good time etc...
You are clearly lively and vivacious... you ... (read in full...)
Troubled...
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly six months and i am so happy, and i love him to bits! I went out with my friends a couple nights ago and i know this sounds incredibly lame and like i'm making excuses but i had a lot to drink and ended up ...
A. 2 January 2011: If you really love him and you honestly don't believe that this will ever happen again... Then learn from it... Don't drink what you can't handle and learn to ignore advances from guys when you are out...
Now the hard bit.... This will nag at you,... (read in full...)
I've been love sick for 14 months should I crash the wedding?
Q. How do I get myself out of the dumps of my gloating selfpity for passing the love of my life by? This is doomsday for me but the wedding day for her? Should I crash the wedding and vow my love to her to be my wife. It's been 14 mos that I was a ...
A. 1 January 2011: Kenny is probably right, in any event crashing the wedding is wrong. If you dont' deal with this today though you may always regret it.
If it was me and she was really the love of my life.... I'd call her, or text her and say... I have to tell you ... (read in full...)
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