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If I'm so "hot", why don't I have many boyfriends, or even offers!!

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Question - (21 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *hadowre writes:

Hey lads, new question.

Iam a bit confused at the mo. I am 17 right. I have only had two boyfriends, they lasted a good while, 7 months and 1 year!

I always thought I wasnt really pretty, but recently, talking to my sister, she has said that her friends (girls) all said that i was really pretty and slim and that they want my figure! The thing is, theyre not even fat. And I also found out that a few of my sisters friends (boys) said that I was really hot!!

The thing is, if I were hot, why dont I have many boyfriends, or even offers!! Like Iam shy, but I grand once ya get to know me. Is there something wrong with me basically?

Cheers, shadowre

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009):

I know its the same for me too :(

ive been told im really beautiful from people

and I never get offers .... ever and I mean I dont mean to brag but I can hold an interesting covo and I think I have an a-ok personality but ughh whatever ya know :)

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A female reader, shadowre Ireland +, writes (23 August 2009):

shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question

shadowre agony auntHey lads, we all make alot of sense! Thank you

Werenotincontrol5, haha i love that song and thanks, dont worry, i do respect myself.

Thanks lads

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (22 August 2009):

Danielepew agony auntA problem for sizzling hot women like yourself is that many men want them for their beauty, but are not serious about having a relationship with them. We want the pretty toy, you understand? Put yourself above that game. Let someone in only after he proves he does want a relationship with you, wrinkles and all (someday), not with your great shape.

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A female reader, kittykhaos United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2009):

kittykhaos agony auntyour probably very pretty and they shyness makes you seem less approachable.

My best friend is like this he is 6"6 and the most beautiful man on the planet but girls never talk to him because he is shy and they think he is rude. ( good for me lol). if your pretty some times guys are intimidated because they think they don't stand a chance and if your shy sometimes that adds to the intimidation. Try and be more open and more confident in yourself im sure one day you will find a guy who will take the time to get to know you and discover you are just as beautiful inside as you are out. The right guy wont care you just need wait :)

good luck x

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