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female
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41-50,
*riscoe
writes:when he told me he was buying a house we almost broke up, we decided to try and work things out instead. so after a month of not seeing him and talking just a few times he finally came over for a visit. we had a great night, dinner, a movie and we made love. he was staying over until i freaked out and told him to leave after looking at his cell. remember, he said it was his real estate agent. i was insecure because we hadn't seen each other in a month. and my ex of 7 years cheated on me. i have hope because my boyfriend hasn't broke up with me. he says i have to work on my trust issues if i want this relationship to last, as well as get my self together. i want this to work and i believe he does too or he would have ended it after the cell phone incident, he is a great man i don't want to lose him, and i know he still loves me or he would give up on us, he hasn't. please help me with this!
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reader, amazingk  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 He is not your ex. If he hasn't cheated on your or given you any other valid reason to mistrust him, then you need to do as he said and get it together! How would you like being accused and interrogated day in and day out without cause? Imagine how he feels. Sounds like you haven't resolved the hurts from your past and that's probably the first thing you should've done prior to entering a new relationship because the past always comes back to bite us in the ass until we get a handle on it and resolve it.
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