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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my gf says she enjoys sex but i feel like she never really opens up during it... she never lets me see her wild side which i know she has. in the past she was known for that certain kind of behavior and has suffered from terrible self esteem from long before she started any of that. i get her to orgasm frequently and we have sex fairly often but i feel most of the time its just going through the motions. when i have asked about her opening up and fantasies ect she just tells me that im her fantasy and she loves have passionate sex with me. which i always endeavor to do. is it possible sex doesnt mean much to my gf and she isnt that into it or is she just afraid to open up
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reader, person12345  +, writes (25 March 2012):
 Or maybe her fantasies are just having sex with lots of orgasms. Not everyone has a crazy wild side or hidden fantasies. Even if she behaved wildly before, it's likely that craziness was due to her self-esteem and wanting to be liked rather than opening up.
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