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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:We broke up on 9/28/10, just before our 4 month anniversary....i have to see her everyday at school. I see her in the hallways, and every 2 days I have one class with her, which is band. About 2 weeks ago she sent me a text saying she still loved me, when my friends in her class tell me shes flirting with other guys. One of my friends who ride her bus said that she was making out with a guy on the bus. It's soo much drama and i'm just tired of it. if she "loves" me, then why would she cause me so much pain? she said the reason for the break up is because she didnt want her family finding out about us (we're both girls) and she didn't want to "hurt" me anymore. This whole thing has caused me more hurt then anytimes in our relationship. My family loved her, my mom knew about us and didnt mind, but now she says that shes not worth it. we always treated her good.ive already gave her a 3 page letter on how i feel, she never replied back. this was before the whole text ordeal. i feel hopeless, everybody in my life has hurt me, and im afraid that if they haven't they will in the future. my friends try to help me get through it, but when i'm alone i cry my eyes out, and sometimes even in class after i see her. how could she do this to me? oh, and none of my friends or people in my class like her. they said ever since she went into their class, the whole class has been getting in trouble, and that shes a drama queen. i dont know what to do, im just lost. there is a girl who is interested in me, but we never get to hang out or anything. thats the only thing stopping me from doing anything. can anybody give me some advice?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Well being a lesbian is quite hard for a young girl to accept as am sure you know this you had to deal with it but maybe this girl is struggling and she is not sure if she is attracted to girls or boys, i know this is unfair on you because you are the one left hurt but am afraid all you can do here is move on, dont let her drag you down and am sure she never meant to hurt you, i know that it is hard to move on from someone when you have to see them everyday but you need to try just spend your time with your friends and dont talk to her.
As for this other person that likes you, why dont you try and hang out with them more often it might help take your mind of things and who knows you might have fun and a new partner goodluck.
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