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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So I am 15 and there is a girl I like who is 14. We both go to different high school and we have hung out a few times and we text/talk on the phone all the time. Well a month ago she told me in a text that she thought I was hot and this gave me an idea that maybe I really do like her (I was unsure at the time). Before i had a chance to ask her out we just stopped talking. Well we are know talking, texting, etc all the time again. Im pretty sure that she still likes me and is interested in me. She is coming over to my house tomorrow. Is it ok to kiss her to bring things further and then ask her out?? Ive wanted to kiss her but i was kinda on the shy side but now I really want it to happen. Also are there tips that i can use for when or how to bring up kissing her?
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reader, TheTouristAttraction +, writes (25 September 2011):
If she likes you, she'll kiss you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2011): First anon poster here.
I disagree with the "if it's spontaneous it's sexual assault" verdict.
Especially at your age. The worst that could happen is rumors in school. Frankly, those rumors mean crap.
It's definitely cool to go on a date first and talk and know each other. But you don't need "permission" to go in for the kiss. "Permission" will be signals you send each other. And most women DO like men who lead. Asking for permission kills any significance the kiss has...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 September 2011):
 It's all romantic and cute in the movies when the guy just randomly kisses the girl. But in real life, it's sexual assault if she doesn't want to be kissed. So you should ask her on a date first, talk to her about stuff first, confess you like her first. If you really want to kiss, you can lean in really close like you're going to and let her come to you. But you can't just go kissing random people without their permission.
Tell her you like her, see where things go from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2011): 1) Never ask her if you can kiss her. This is just about the most un-romantic move ever.
2) Just play together and be natural.
3) When there gets to be a kind of energy (tension, butterflies...whatever you want to call it) go for the kiss.
It shouldn't be complicated, and you shouldn't worry.
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