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writes:This Summer I finished my studies and was meant to go on holiday with my sister, my uni friends and my ex-girlfriend who theres always a chance I would get back together with. However, last minute I found I had a problem with my passport and could not go. So everyone went without me (I did not want them to lose there money as well). Anyway, in front of all my friends and family (sister), my ex-girlfriend went out with and slept with two guys in three days on the holiday. She has now come back and says she loves me and wants to get back with me. I do love her but should I trust her after that. If she loves me, how could she do that in front of my best friends and sister especially on a holiday I couldn't go on? Could she have missed me and done that? Should I trust her? Especially since my friends and sister now think she is a 'slut'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): A guy would do the same thing, except a guy would do it while in a relationship..so what's the big deal?
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (4 September 2007):
 She did not cheat on you as the two of you were not 'together', however any girl that would sleep with two guys in three days is a major slut and not worth a decent guys time.
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reader, cuninglingwist +, writes (4 September 2007):
She got off with two guys in three days, Good for her!
You dont own her, she,s free to do as she feels,
what if you fell in love with a girl next week and found out she did 10guys on holiday last year!
I know virgins that turned into insatable whores,
and loverly sluts that turned into the best females I know.
maybe you need to grow up and open your mind to reality, or find a virgin, good luck!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (3 September 2007):
 Would they be saying the same thing about you if you had done that on holiday?, any girl that does something like that always gets called a slut.You were not together, so she has not done anything wrong, so really there should be no trust issues there.Some people do this sort of thing just so they can find out how they really feel about someone, or maybe it was just a bit of fun, she was young and single after all.Go with your heart on this one if you still like her and you think you could work, then you go for it, if you don't you will only regret it later on.Take care.xx.
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