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*mmaxbaby
writes:I fancy my boss like crazy and i WANT to sleep with him, even though hes married and got kids?how do i get him 2 want me too? how shall i act? dress? make up? perfume? hair?
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reader, borna  +, writes (16 August 2008):
I suggest you read a recent novel named "Adultery Club" (http://tinyurl.com/6lp3dz). It's about a young girl who is physically attracted to her boss who is married and has kids. the story is narrated from 3 points of view: the girl, the guy (boss) and boss's wife. You can both get ideas about how to attract the guy and also what're the consequences of such relationship. quite a fine paced novel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): I am the person who wanted to sleep with my married boss. I am now pregnant (possibly with his baby) and he is just about to undergo fertility treatment with his wife to have the perfect baby. Don't do it! You could end up the one miserable at home whilst he goes back to his wife every night - they never leave their wives as it would cause too much heartache and you will end up feeling used and confused. Trust me, I am an expert. Keep looking for that special unattached guy! I would also possibly suggest a change of job...your feelings won't just go away and they'll drive you crazy.
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reader, prabhudutta  +, writes (15 August 2008):
do u realy think that u wud get the mental satisfaction and peace if u sleep with him...i dont' think so..this is a weired thought ...put an immediate hault to this or u wud end up sleeping with number of bosses u wud come across and spoil his as well as your own mental and social peace....
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reader, hotbabe_96 +, writes (15 August 2008):
Do you believe in the ten comandments...???
you are not suppose to covet someone elses spouse...
you are commiting a sin...
Ask God to forgive your thoughts and to send you someone that single to love
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (15 August 2008):
I find lots of people attractive and would like to have sex with them...but I don't. Find someone who IS NOT married that you find attractive and have sex with them. I'm sorry for being judgemental...but what kind of person are you? Knowing that he's married with children and still wanting to have sex with him? Are you extremely insecure? I really just have trouble understanding what goes through your mind...that's all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008):
Time to grow up and realize that you can't always get what you want. Having adult-level maturity is more than just looser rules in life.
And in a case like this, you really shouldn't get what you want. Unless his wife & he already have this kind of relationship, it's gonna wreck their marriage. And really ruin the childhoods of the kids they have.
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reader, PaSpa +, writes (14 August 2008):
Perhaps the question you should ask is, "What should I be thinking." Have you considered how his wife would feel, or his kids? How they would all cry and feel devistated because you couldn't control your libido? How would you feel if someone slept with your husband? Think before you act. Their feelings are more important than your lust. Ask yourself how you can resist the urge to want to lure him into bed. Focus on someone else perhaps. Figure out what attracts you to him and draw your focus away from those things. Women need to stick together and look out for each other, not stab each other in the back. Don't be weak; be strong.
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reader, vsnod +, writes (14 August 2008):
 It seems you are not thinking clearly. This sight is not about how to have affairs, break up marriages, etc. What you are trying to do is wrong and weather you know it or not, it will have consequences for ALL involved!
Thank about it this way, have you ever had a boyfriend? How would you feel if he slept with some girl, even if it was ‘just sex’?
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reader, lexilou +, writes (14 August 2008):
 You just want sex but dont want to ruin anything? Not possible. What about if his wife finds out, ruined - 1 marriage, ruined - your job, ruined - his life, his wifes life and his kids lives.
What if you fall in love and he doesnt and you have to leave your job, what if he falls in love with you and you dont want more? What if you approach him and he sacks you for sexual harrassment?? Dont even think about it girl x
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Hun.. you've asked a question before about you're boyfriend not pleasuring you during sex...
1) Are you still with him? Because sleeping with your boss is going to cause problems as it is without you being taken.
2) Are you sure that you acutally want to have sex with your boss or is it that because you arn't being pleasured by your boyfriend, that you are sexually frustrated and feel that you need to have sex with someone?
Please listen to the advice of the others that tell you it's a bad idea. Nothing good could come out of the situation, hun. I think you know that deep down.
Take care xx
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (14 August 2008):
 So, you must really hate your job right? If you sleep with him then post-coital work relations won't be fun...you know how office gossip is and will you expect professional respect after the passion has died. If he sleeps with you as a married man then he sleeps with other people too...do you live on an island where there are no other men you fancy? If so, move...
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (14 August 2008):
 This is wrong
He has a family, do you really want to ruin it and break their kids hearts?
Do you think you're boss would sleep with you?
Imagine the embarressment if he said no because he loves his family and then you found working with him embarressing?
Why do you really want to do this?
We need to know more
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Just be yourself, who could resist such a classy lady? Good luck with the homewrecking!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): High heels, stockings and susps, french knickers, balconette bra underneath a large coat and flash him at an appropriate moment. He won't worry what your hair looks like or what you smell of.
You may even keep your job.
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reader, Emmaxbaby +, writes (14 August 2008):
Emmaxbaby is verified as being by the original poster of the question I want just sex and nothing else, i dont want 2 ruin anything for him, i just want fantastic sex with him as i find him attractive
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