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writes:I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 i fell headlessly in love with this boy, i am sure it is love because i felt the butterflies and everything just by hearing his name or seeing his picture. He lives 20 minutes driving away from me, so i don't see him that much, but even then.. he got me head over heals. For a few months we talked a lot on hotmail and facebook and at new year's eve he even send me an message, even he didn't had my number before that, he asked my friend who was with his group of friends that night. Now lately the contact was as good as over, partly because i stopped it, because i wanted and needed to get over him and stop all the obsessive things. Untill yesterday, i saw him again on a party at his hometown.. i knew i would see him, but i told myself to be strong and don't give him too much attention. Well, that plan failed, he kept talking to me and looking at me with those very beautifull and stary eyes. So now .. i'm totaly bach in the love-state with him and he doesn't even know..WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? :He has a girlfriend, but he seems to like me too, because i heard of my girl who was with him on new years eve that he was talking about me a lot and asked about me frequently. Nontheless he is still with this girl and he doesn't seem to be planning on leaving her..Because i realy am freaking on the whole situation i decided to text him and ask him if he wants to go drink something to talk. and he immediatly accepted, and i think he knows why i wanne talk to him. So now i am planning to go and talk to him, but i don't realy know what i should say.. ofcourse i'll express my feelings to him, but what then? Should i ask him about his feelings for me? with the risk that he totally don't see it this way and i would want to cry... Or if he does feel the same.. it could be the end of his relationship and i wouldn't want to cause that.. I realy realy don't know what to do and say to him..I hate this situation so hard, and the fact that i don't fall in love easly makes it all so much harder, because i can't just go looking for somebody else to forget about him.. that's just impossible..:(thanks , love , kisses !
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (24 June 2011):
hi i understand how hard this must be for you but i would not tell him how you are feeling it could go horribly wrong maybe you are just looking for signs to see if he is interested even if they are not there if you tell him how you feel he might not feel the same and you might end up losing a good friend and you may also end up ending his relationship with his girlfriend and he amy not forgive you for that i would have a good think about it before you say anything think of the pros and cons good luck
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