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I want to know how to increase my libido

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Question - (20 November 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2012)
A age 36-40, * writes:

hello every body

i want to know how to increase my libido my sex drive high so that i can fulfill my pleasure with my girlfriend. i have heared that if i tie a black and red thread around the waist i will overcome evil eyes as well as my sex arousal will increase and i can withstand for long orgasm.she says that i am not taking the orals eternally i am trying to get full pleasure as well as fulfill her needs thank you

one more think after shaving my pubic area i use to apply prickly heat powder. is it OK, because i think some chemicals are included in powders it may get inside our v*****a make infection. till now no infections received. but while p***ING there is a irritation. i use powder to stop itchiness after a shave please provide me suggestions.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 November 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntnot sure how to increase it but

black and red thread is an old wives tale and will do nothing for your libido.

are you shaving your pubic hair for yourself? are you getting it nice and moist in a hot shower and using a good rich shave cream or hair conditioner? and then moisturizer after? that will help.

IF you are not shaving to please yourself... stop doing it.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (20 November 2012):

janniepeg agony auntWhat are evil eyes?

I know that safer ways to increase libido is include for zinc and selenium in your diet. Seafood, avocado, nuts strawberries are good for that.

To fulfill her needs, you just need to be an attentive lover. I don't think you need a big libido to withstand orgasm. When you are having an orgasm already, you are already aroused. You decide how much orgasm you can endure. Moderation is good. Let no one tell you how long you have to have an orgasm. You want to stop the oral not because you don't have a high libido, but because you are overstimulated, getting too raw down there, and your body is telling you to stop. A high libido means you want sex frequently, it does not mean you can just take it beyond what you can take it. Quality is important than duration.

When you shave, don't use a metal blade razor. Use the electronic ones with a shave side and a trim side. I never had a problem with itchiness.

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A female reader, shrodingerscat United States +, writes (20 November 2012):

shrodingerscat agony auntThere is no hard scientific data that a piece of thread will raise your libido, and since there's no hard scientific data on "the evil eye" either, I'd sorely doubt the source that told you that a piece of thread would do ANYTHING for you.

You need cold hard facts, not ancient superstitions.

http://health.howstuffworks.com/sexual-health/sexual-dysfunction/top-10-natural-ways-to-boost-libido.htm

Not all of the things on this list will work for you, but in conjunction, you should see an increase in your overall health and emotional well-being, which is a good way to make sure your libido isn't being suppressed by poor self-esteem, poor diet, or bad life choices.

As for soothing shaving rash:

http://www.healthywomen.org/content/blog-entry/soothing-shaving-rash-naturally

http://www.etsy.com/listing/101881898/bikini-serum-soothe-shaving-irritation?utm_source=googleproduct&utm_medium=syndication&utm_campaign=GPS&gclid=CJOa6L_G3rMCFemiPAod_hUAfw

http://www.twinluxe.com/shop/care/gel/index.php?gclid=CJD_rtHG3rMCFQioPAodaTMAiA

A soothing after shaving balm is what you're looking for. I provided links to two items you can purchase as well as a "natural" way to soothe skin after a shave.

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