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writes:So here’s the story:I’ve fancied this guy at school for about a year now. We talk on msn a lot and have done for over a year. Judging by our msn conversation you’d think we were pretty good friends, sometimes a couple. The problem is that he’s shy and quiet, and I’m the same. We’ve been blanking each other in person and then talking normally on msn. The only times we have the confidence to chat in person is when we’re tipsy. We mess about a lot and people sometimes notice us together. This doesn’t happen often though. I sometimes catch his eye at school and there’ve been times when it feels like we’ve been keeping an eye on each other. But I don’t think he likes me. I think I’m getting my hopes up.He’s always on my mind. Everything I do seems to connect to him and I get hyper when he’s around. I don’t know what to think of him as he’s less confident in person. I get jealous of any girls he’s friends with and I got pretty upset recently when I saw him hugging another girl. Plus I’m going to uni in September which will alter everything. I don’t know if I’d want to be in a relationship with him though, and I know I’m going over the top here, but he’s the only person I’ve ever truly liked. I don’t know why and it’s pretty pathetic. I just really, really like him. Nobody else knows this.So what do you think? What should I do? I want to get over him but I like him so much. I have no idea what he thinks. Please help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): I am surprised that you dont talk in person,you see everyone talks differently on msn then they would in real life, so you two in my opinion dont really know eachother.
I know its scary to talk to someone who you have deep feelings for, but you have to force yourself to do it, its the only way that you will know. So stiffen the upper lip and go over to him
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reader, Robyn1313  +, writes (26 February 2010):
Ask him out, on msn. if that is where you are you chat then ask him. Ask to talk at school, the heart is important to listen to but sometimes the mind overides the heart. listen to your heart and ask him out to a movie. if you are not comfortable with him one on one ask out with friends, make it a double of triple date. good friends will help you get the guy you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2010):
I can totally understand where you are coming from, and how you feel because Iv kinda been there.
The only reason why you cant stop thinking about him all the time is because you are keeping all them feelings to yourself.
Not expressing true feelings only mean they are going to grow.
Bottling it up, is going to be painful.
I suggest you talk to this guy more often- face to face. And
you can get to know him more and build on your relationship, maybe it help you make up your mind about how you really feel. In your situation, I would tell this guy how I feel about him ( at least hint).Keeping quiet for too long isnt good and youre leaving soon. getting it off your chest will help, even it doesnt work out between you two.
I hope this was helpful
Good luck!
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