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writes:I have a friend (im 15 btw) (N) that I no longer wish to be friends with. Heres why: me, N, and my best friend (B) used to be good friends, but B and N fought a lot. It was mostly about stupid things, but many of them had to do with N feeling like B was trying to steal me away from her (she freaked out when me and B were hanging out without her, when me and B made the cheerleading squad she told me that B is plottin to steal me away from her, and a different friend once told me that she called her in hysterics saying how B was trying to steal me away from her). She's convinced that SHE is my best friend, and that B is just a "secondary" best friend. Truthfully, its the other way around. For awhile now me and B have been talking about how annoying and dramatic she is and that we don't want to be friends with her anymore. Then something big happened. Me and B were asked by a mutual friend that N does not know to go in a group with her to a formal dance. Some other guys and girls are going, all of which N does not know. A few weeks later, after the plans were made, N texted B saying that the three of us should go together. We told her we had plans and she freaked! She went all out on B and told her they were no longer friends anymore. The next day she told me over facebook the same thing. Me and B were very happy. About 5 days later (today, my birthday) N got on the bus to school (we are on the same bus) and she wished me a happy birthday. I said thanks and also that it was really cool of her to say that, regardless of what has happened. She then told me she forgives me (like there was anything to forgive) and that we should keep it beween us. Of course I told B, but she doesn't know that. Anyway she sat next to me on the ride home and acted like we were good friends again. Honestly, I don't want to be friends with her. I was sad when she "forgave" me. How can I end this friendship with this obsessive girl?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (24 January 2012):
 I think YOU are not being a very good friend to N either. You need to "man" up and tell her that you feel you two have grown apart.
From what you wrote, you actually comes off as creating a drama with B, just to make N upset. I could be wrong, but N needs a real friend, not someone who is faking it.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 All those Ns and Bs made your story a little difficult to read, however to be honest I think you are being a bit of a bitch.
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