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writes: Hi, I was confused and hoped someone could help. Recently a friend I had had admitted to me that he liked me and wondered what I felt about him. We haven't been friends long (like 3 months) and I said I'd just like to be friends for now and we could see if it led to naything and he agreed to that. In the begining, when we first became friends, he said people around church were thinking we were a couple and he didn't want me to panic if I heard people saying that and that he had told them we were just friends. I agreed to that and said okay, friends is cool, so that's the thought I had in mind the whole time, not thinking we were anything but friends, yet we did spend a lot of time together and at church and just hanging out because he is easy to talk to and a nice guy, but didn't think of it as anymore of friendship because I thought that he was just interested in me as a friend. We're both Christian, which is great because I want to date someone of my own religion, yet I'm questioning myself asking "Should I give him a chance and see if we're compatible by dating him?" or "Should I evaluate him more to see if it's a good idea we should date in the first place?" I can't decide which viewpoint to take. I wouldn't mind dating him, yet I'm also thining if we beak up, I'm going to have to see him every Saturday of every week, and that would be very difficult, and awkward. If I evaluate him more also, I don't know what other types of questions to ask him to really find out what he's about. Any auggestions? Thanks
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (3 January 2007):
 My suggestion is to simply continue what you are doing, hanging out, having fun and learning about each other as time goes by. Deciding if he should be your boyfriend shouldn't be a difficult and formal decision for you to make. It will either happen or it won't, you will know when you have gathered enough information about him. It sounds as though he is a very nice fellow, and that having him as a "just friend" or as a "boyfriend" can only be a good thing.
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