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writes: i have been with my bf for just over 2 years but recently he moved away because of work (temporarily). i will get to see him once a month, thats if im lucky- this is making me really depressed. it feels like hes on the other side of the world and even tho we talk on the phone i get the feeling that we are growing apart. i dont want our relationship to end, without him i wouldnt feel complete. how can i save our relationship? how can i show him i love him enough to wait as long as it takes until he moves back to the city i live in?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): I really connected with this as my boyfriend lives several hundred miles away from me.
The way we keep connected id through phone calls, texts, emails and chatting online. We make "phone dates" where we agree to talk at a certain time.
Try sending him a cd with all the songs on which remind you of him, with a letter explaining why each song means what it does.
Or write him a love letter and post it with a simple gift.
There's lots of ways to remind him that you miss him.
Mostly though remember its not going to be forever and he'll soon be back in your arms again.
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Hon, it sounds like you are just missing him horribly. Which is normal... he's not there right now. The best advice I can give to you is make the MOST of your telephone conversations, tell him how you feel, and see him as often as possible. Showing him that you love him enough to wait as long as it takes to get him back? All you can do about that is DO it. You don't say how long he will be gone, so I can't tell you how long you should wait, but in the mean time, get busy with your friends, get a part time job if you are still in school, and make the most of the free time you have. Don't just sit home and wait until he returns. This will get easier as time goes by.
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