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male
age
26-29,
*a1nonliSam
writes:Hi, When I was in year 6 I liked this girl in my class, then last year in September we started going out and kissed once. In febuary I met a girl online while I was going out with the other girl, the girl I met online said she was all nyc and seemed to be my type and I started liking her, and dumped the other one, now I'm going out with the one I met online and I aint seen her at all just a picture and she keeps testing me how much I like her and she gets on my nerves when she does that, and now I realise I still like the 1st girl.Today I saw her we started talking and then she asked if I was seeing anyone, I told her yes and then we were talking about other stuff until I asked her if she going out with any one she said no, and walked off. I held her hand and went forward and asked her why? She mumbles because she can't find any one like me, and then quietly says she likes me and I held her hand and kissed her and snogged her, I don't know what to do, I like both of them but the 1st girl the one I liked in year 6, she seems my type and she don't act weird with me but the other one sometimes is weird and keeps secrets from me, she also likes many other guys. I want to break up with the second girl the online one but don't want to hurt her feelings how can I do that? And is it wrong of what I did today with the 1st girl I liked, and is it wrong to like her?
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reader, Charlie84  +, writes (20 August 2007):
Go with your heart man. You know whats right inside and nobody can tell you which one you care about more. But if I were you and the same age I would take the local girl. I was in a long distance relationship at the same age and it ended up bad. She too liked a lot of different guys and craved the physical attention and I wasted 4 years of my life on her. I still feel the pain from her.
You need to realize that you wouldn't meet his girl from the internet for at least a few years and with being the age you are you need to have someone physically around you. This is the time in your life you explore everything and it sucks being there alone while you long for someone who is so far away.
Trust me if you choose the local girl who is more sane and you said is more your type I promise you will be 100 times happier in the end. Don't worry about the other girl's feelings. Tell her how it is and that you wish her the best of luck and enjoyed what you had together but its over and nothing would ever come of it and thats it. Don't concern yourself with her feelings regarding it to the point that you feel trapped in the relationship.
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