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writes:im in high school and the and my boyfriends ex girlfriend keeps hanging around him!!! she hangs around his form room sometimes which is kinda awkward as we used to be bestfriends in primary school but scince high school we grew appart. Recently we found out we will be in the same art class next year and she asked me to meet up with her to work on a project a week after me and him got together he and lots of other people went on a trip from our school not long ago (there was limited numbers and I didnt get in) but he texted me alot telling me how much he loved and missed me but I knew he spent alot of time with her on the trip I know that he isnt intrested and she is doing all the chasing but its kinda annoying I want to be friends with her but I want to keep her away from my boyfriend...Any helpful suggestions?? and also does anyone think let me know please!!???thanks ;-) confuzzledamethyst xx
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reader, confuzzledamethyst +, writes (20 August 2012):
confuzzledamethyst is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the advice I have just posted another question... its similar to this one but its not just about her its about all the girls he spends time with please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2012): It is going to be impossible to keep them apart, and the fact is it is going to make things extremely awkward. Your boyfriend wants to be with you and you need to trust that. He is capable of making his own decisions and he has decided your the one he wants to be with, not her. He is at a point where he can be friends with her that is a good thing, especially if you want to be friends with her again too. You need to trust your boyfriend that he loves you and he does not want her anymore.
You also run the risk of pushing him into her arms if you start being the jealous girlfriend who is trying to control him being friends with her, don't do that. Just be happy that these two people who mean something to you can get along, it makes life much easier. Good Luck.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (7 August 2012):
It sounds like it’s going to be pretty hard to keep her away from him. You’re forgetting that your boyfriend has the ability to make choices for himself: she might be doing all the chasing, but what does that matter if it’s you he wants to be with? It sounds like he’s accepted that their relationship is over, and he wants to stay with you. But if he’s got to a point where he’s able to spend time with her and get on with her, that’s a good thing. It will be hard for you with a friend and a boyfriend who you can’t stand being together. Be glad that two important people in your life get on, and accept that the past is done with.
I wish you all the very best.
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