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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Good day,I am 28 years old and I've been married almost 2 years now. I love my husband dearly and we have a beautiful baby boy. I love my family. But my question is how do I deal with the death of our romantic status. My husband and I have known eachother for 12 years. We were high school sweethears and parted ways only to reunite years later. I love him dearly but he used to be the type of guy that would do the most romantic things for me. Now our whole life seems to be consumed by work, financial woes, baby and house repairs. I understand that its hard but is it to much to ask for a sweet text now and then, or a romantic night out?? We've had our share of problems and even seperated for a couple days months ago. He was liming alot with his friends and didn't want to go out with me. I couldn't take it and we seperated but now he doesn't lime much and our son is so happy, but I'm not. I feel like an old wife whose been married 25 years. Everytime I try to talk to him he gets defensive and we argue. So I don't talk about it anymore, but my heart is grieving fo the life we had.. Our family adores our son and everyone has told me anytime we need a baby sitter they'd be happy to watch him for a couple hours so we could do somethig as a couple, nothing expensive, you know, go to the movies, take a drive, just somethig for us to be together bt he doesn't ever want to.. What should I do??
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