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writes:I'm in love with my childhood friend we haven't talked for years about seven months ago we seen each other again she just got out of a bad relationship we started talking again ive told her I've wanted more than just being friends awhile back ago she said she wasn't ready so we continued being friends tonight I finally broke down and told her I was in love with her she said she didn't feel the same I told her I couldn't do it anymore and I couldn't be around her cause i only feel more for her I've done everything in the world to make her feel different I told I couldn't be around her cause I fall in love with her more and more every day she said she understood and was sorry she didn't feel the same is there any chance her feelings will change since I've left Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2012): no, i highly doubt her feelings will change. it's just not there for her like it is for you. there's really not a whole lot you can do about that, unfortunately. i'd cut your losses and let it go.
no reason you can't eventually be her friend, though. she's been very honest and straight forward with you. at least she didn't toy with your emotions at all. i would just get the mindset of legitimately being her friend and work on being just that. and when you're ready, come back into her life. that's my two cents. good luck.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 August 2012):
 Maybe, just maybe, her feelings will change. It is said that, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." If not, you must move on. You are young.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (4 August 2012):
 It is really hard to be just friends with someone you like romantically. I think you were very respectful and told her just what you should have. These situations are very hard, but you were very mature about it. I know it hurts. I would not count on it that she will change her mind. I would go ahead and get on with your life. If she changes her mind, I am sure she will let you know.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 August 2012):
 No I really doubt it. Yes I am sure she valued your friendship and will miss it but you done the right thing here. You would only keep hurting yourself if you continued this friendship, yes it will be hard, but with time and distance you will get over her and move forward with someone else. As hard as it is to accept you just cannot force someone in to loving you.
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