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I want a relationship, not meaningless sex! I'm confused.

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Question - (26 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi im confused. theres a lad i like but all he seems to want is sexual stuff... he says he wouldnt do anything with me drunk because id wud be taking advantage and he said he wouldnt wanna do that. But he says he doesn't fancy me and he said things could grow. he asked me if i was with him what would i do with him and i explained i wouldnt do anything if he didnt fancy me and i asked him and he said he'd do anything i want. so i said would u hold my hand? and he said he dunt really hold hands.. then i said would u kiss me out of ur own choise not just to make me happy and he said dno. . Im confused? he also wanted me to flash and stuff... I want a relationship not meaningless sex and so on? what should i do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008):

It's almost like he's saying to you "Yes, I'd give you one if you put a brown paper bag over your head".

You really do know you could do better than this jerk, surely?

You don't need anyone else to tell you what to say to him do you? It ends in 'off' in my vocabulary.

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A female reader, lilly123 United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2008):

lilly123 agony auntIm was goin through the samething awhile ago and you no what he's not worthit move on and find somone that wont play games with you.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (26 July 2008):

I agree with Aly Jane. If you want a relationship, keep your options open for someone else. He obviously isn't into and relationship and just wants to use you. All he deserves is his right hand.

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A female reader, -Red- Ireland +, writes (26 July 2008):

-Red- agony auntDo not be used by anyone darlin'

The way you describe him, i don't particularly care for the guy. Don't take less than you can get chick and i can gaurentee that you can get a hell of a whole lot more than what he's willing to give you.

good luck :D

xoxox

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