How can I stop these feelings from ruining my life?
Q. My head is so messed up just now. Im 13 almost 14 with a guy presuring me into having sex with him. I have a man who follows me about i dont no why and my parents are geting divorced. Some times i just feel like giving up i dont know what to do. Ho ...
A. 19 October 2009: ok first of all tell sombody about the man that is following you because you never no what might happen next seriously.
secondly your first time should not be because you are being pressured into it, you will always remember it and you dont won... (read in full...)
Fallen for my best friend and she's a female!
Q. Hey everybody ? I need some help plz! Sorry for the length btw, but ther was a lot to say!!! Ok I'm not entirely sure where to start, but here it goes... About 6 months ago i noticed i was really attracted to one of my closest friends. I hav...
A. 20 September 2009: I dont think i agree with mossy although she could be rite like the fact that you have made out loads of times,she talks about having sex with you,being attracted to girls,being jealous of you hooking up with someone else,the looks and the little ... (read in full...)
He gives me pleasure but doesn't seem to want it from me! What's happening?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and i hope its true when he tells me lovely things. yesterday he told me that hes fallen for me, and hes not the sort of boy who likes saying i love you etc. But there is one problem... whenever we do ...
A. 20 September 2009: You should just ask him sex is supposed to be fun for both of you if he is not enjoying it then you should talk about why he isn't.... (read in full...)
I am 18, she is 13, can we get engaged?
Q. i like a girl in Mansfield but she love me will it be ok to get engaged to her, they are 13 years and i am 18 years old ? ...
A. 25 August 2009: she is a child no its not ok and i hope to god your are not having sex with her.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my friend and I think she likes me too, how should I go about this?
Q. Im so confused, i need help. Im 15, gay, and Im in love with my best friend, have been now for about 9 months. She used to say she was bi, then straight, then she didnt know and just yesterday she said she was bi again. My friends reckon she likes ...
A. 17 July 2009: just tell her it may make it awkward but on the other hand you may end up getting everything you wont, is it worth the risk?... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I don't think I'm ready yet?
Q. My girlfriend who I have been going out with for over a year and a half. I love her so much and would do anything for her. Now lately, we have been messing around saying sex stuff. But obviously cos we r both gay. (im bi and she is a lesbian), but ...
A. 17 July 2009: it will panic you thinking about it but its like the others said you will know when your ready and its true you do know. Just talk to her if she loves you how much you love her she will wait as long as it takes just dont do it if it not what you ... (read in full...)
I like guys who look more feminine. Is this normal?
Q. Is it normal for a girl like me to be attracted to androgynous guys? (Like Johnny Depp or David Bowie) I'm 100% straight, but I just have this fetish for guys that are kind of feminine. Is that normal for a woman?...
A. 17 July 2009: i think people stress too much about trying to be "normal" whatever normal is. As long as your happy what does it matter.... (read in full...)
What can I do to make boys like me?
Q. Hey xx Im a typical teenage girl. And ever since I started secondary school I have been reallly open about everything and sometimes I feel I am too open about things and make boys feel uncomfortable. I laugh a lot and always talk to boys. I like a...
A. 11 June 2009: you carnt do anything and you should not change who you are for a guy so just be yourself and eventually you will meet somone who loves for who you are.This boy who you are talking about just tell him how you feel that way you will know how he ... (read in full...)
Do you think dating other girls can make her jealous or do you think my hope is lost?
Q. I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we took things very slow and over the course of the rest of the school year and into summer we fell in love. We were each other's best friend and told ...
A. 11 March 2009: i think you should follow what your heart is telling you you seem to have thought this through so go for it. you are rite it is not doing you any good so it has to stop being the way it is. i hope it works out for you.... (read in full...)
He raped me, and is now dating my sister! What should I do?
Q. About 4 years ago, I was raped. I was 15 at the time, I am 19 now. I never told anyone but my sister. And I told her to never tell anyone. She gave me her promise. (She is 24 now) it all happend on april 4th 2004. I was coming home from visiting my ...
A. 28 February 2009: You need to tell them, wot you did was amazing but do you really wont your sister with a rapist he could end up being abusive to her and he could still be raping people because if he doesnt remember you it carnt have been the first time he has done ... (read in full...)
Do you think dating other girls can make her jealous or do you think my hope is lost?
Q. I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we took things very slow and over the course of the rest of the school year and into summer we fell in love. We were each other's best friend and told ...
A. 28 February 2009: Wow you really love this girl dont you, you're right, feelings don't just turn off over night, of course she still loves you but being in a long distance relationship is really hard and a lot of the time it don't work because you need to be with ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to fall in love with your own aunt?
Q. Please HELP, I am a young guy and I fell in love with my mom's sister and we both are in love for 2 years, we did everything (kissing, licking, pressing) but not sexual intercourse, is this bad to fall in love or to marry own aunt? This is not a ...
A. 28 February 2009: if you dont be together you are both going to be unhappy but you have to ask yourself is it worth looseing your family because it could happen. if you decide to be together its always guna be hard because alot of people dont think its right but we ... (read in full...)
I need help choosing between them, advice would be appreciated?
Q. alright, to set it off, im bi, currently liking girls. problem is choosing between two of them. alright, heres the scenerio, basically, im torn between two ladies. when we start to look for significant others, we have certain "ideals" right? ...
A. 22 February 2009: The fact that you call C your safety says it all and from the way you talk about Z i would say you are more into her. Everyone does have a certain type of person that they think they should be with but when you meet someone that makes your life more ... (read in full...)
I think there is something between us..how do I tell her?
Q. Well, Im 15, bi and recently came out to my friends. One of my friends I am really close to (lets call her X), and I really fancy her and months ago she said she was bi, but then told our other friend that she was not. Then, a few minutes after I ...
A. 21 February 2009: she could like you if she is bi but she could just be playing games with you or the things that you have described could not mean anything. you should just ask her otherwise you may never no she could be afraid to make the first move so go for it! ... (read in full...)
Affair with a married man - why is it so hard to choose?
Q. I am having an affair with a married man whom i met 16 years ago and then he suddenly appeared again in my life at my grandma funeral. He is married and they have 3 kids. They are not getting along very well and been not sharing the same room fo...
A. 21 February 2009: BECAUSE YOU ARE HIS BIT ON THE SIDE! he wont leave his family and he will put them first. What youre doing is wrong so many people are going to end up hurt if this comes out think about how you feel and then think about how his wife and kids will ... (read in full...)
I fell in love with one of my best friends but she also has a boyfriend.
Q. Hey Guys, I'm in a really depressing situation at the moment. About 2 years ago, I met a girl at work who pretty much made these last 2 years the best of my life. When I first met her, I was automatically attracted to her. She was the girl I h...
A. 21 February 2009: you have to talk to her about this, tell her how you feel that way if she likes you great, if not it will make it easier for you to move on although there are some people we never really get over you can move on. tell her everything you have told ... (read in full...)
I offered to have sex with my gay friend to "turn him straight"! What now?
Q. I'm going to be 16 soon. I've known this gay friend for years now and we're really good friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. A while ago, he was really depressed because the guy he likes for a long time finally decided to tell him the ...
A. 31 January 2009: I think he wonts to use you to fit in and who better to do that with than your best friend. You need to sit him down and have a serious talk and help him understand that there is nothing wrong with being gay and yes there are somepeople that will ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend to bits.... but he's really bad in bed!
Q. Ok I posted a question a couple of days ago about my boyfriend. Basically he's the nicest guy in the world and we really get on, he's really snuggly and everything but theres a catch, he's really bad in bed. It started off me just thinking he was ...
A. 17 January 2009: Sex is a major part of a relationship and if things arnt good in the bedroom it effects the relationship you may not wont it to but it will. I think you should talk to him about it tell him how much you like him and enjoy being with him but tell him ... (read in full...)
Fighting a lot... Honestly I rather sleep on the lumpy couch than be in the same bed as her.
Q. Me and my wife have been fighting a lot lately. We normally fight about my work hours. She says I'm not spreading enough with her. I usually get up at 5:00am and won't get home until 8:00pm (I actually get off at 5:00 but I like to work over time) ...
A. 17 January 2009: ok i'd be mad at you aswell if i never saw you because you would rather be out drinking than spending time with me, i mean come on you go to work at 5.00 am then you dont come home till 3 then in the morning. Everyone needs some time with friends to ... (read in full...)
Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?
Q. Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...
A. 31 December 2008: You no me an my brother were talking about this the other day and we just went round in circles. I dont believe in god i dont belive he made us and this world because if he did why is he letting it be destroyed. why does he let all the killers and ... (read in full...)
He treated me like a doormat, this time I stood up for myself but now I feel bad!
Q. I left a message on here yesterday about how my boyfriend told me to leave him alone, resulting in me leaving him last night because i could not handle the way he was with me anymore. Well about 20 minutes ago i recieved a text off him, asking ...
A. 31 December 2008: Dont take his stuff round for him tell him if he wonts them to come for them, if he comes dont invite him in just give him his stuff and say bye. If he has always treated you like a doormat then he will be too shocked at how you are standing up for ... (read in full...)
My mom's boyfriend cheated on her with me. I don't know what to do in this situation but I don't want her to be with a guy like him!
Q. I have this problem and I'm not sure how to handle it. I'm gay. I came out years ago and my family have always been cool about it since they saw it coming. My mother especially as I always stood by her and helped her through a divorce to my father. ...
A. 7 September 2008: i agree with lance you should stop acting like the innocent party i mean how could you do that to your mother, she is going to be crushed but you have to tell her if you love her at all you cannot let her stay with a guy that would have sex with her ... (read in full...)
In love with my sister's best friend who is straight. Do you think she is playing with me? Also, could my bi colleague like me?
Q. ok so here it goes. it started 2 years ago. i'm a girl and i fell in love with my sisters best friend. i had a boyfriend back there and it was the first time i actually had feelings for another girl. first it was just a crush u know i thought ...
A. 7 September 2008: it sounds like your sisters friend is just toying with you because she knows you like her if she has always had every boys attention then she will love having attention from a girl also, I know its hard to get over someone when you are crazy about ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but I'm afraid I might be pregnant. Am I?
Q. okay so me and my boyfriend had sexual intercourse on Monday. we did not use protection and he came inside me. i have been taking the pill for 6 weeks now and not missed one out or anything and i am still taking them. the only trouble is i fee...
A. 7 September 2008: you should go to your doctors they will do a test for you and then can talk with you about all your worries and what you are going to do about the situation, don't be scared to because you need to know either way don't you and thats what doctors are ... (read in full...)
Double whammy...I need advice!
Q. I need help,im almost 16 an my boyfriend is almost 14.We dont go to same school anymore but,we reallyyy like eachother, yet we've been a couple for only a week now.And,he wants to have sex with me badly.I'm not sure if i'm ready an if i am ready,i ...
A. 21 August 2008: Sounds to me like he just wants sex from you, you have only been together a week and he is telling you he loves you. Put him to the test tell him you want to wait if he has a problem with it dump him he is not worth it, dont have sex till your ready ... (read in full...)
Are we going out or just friends - Sorry its long, but please help.
Q. I have a very serious question and need your advise. 8 months ago i met this awesome girl through a friend and we hit it off from the start and ended making out the night we met. But as i said i wasnt looking for anything serious so i told her fr...
A. 7 August 2008: friends with benifits dont work!someone always ends up getting hurt.Maybe while you were away somthing happend with another guy or she realised that she wants more than just friends with benifits and just does not think you can give that to her, so ... (read in full...)
This guy is pressuring me to take my clothes off....what do I do??
Q. Ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and he keeps trying to pressure me into taking my clothes off. I keep saying no because Im not comfortable with that yet as its too soon. But I do like him. Anyway, today he said something to me ...
A. 3 August 2008: Get rid of him,you are not comfortable with him and if he is pressuring you now he want stop until he gets what he wants, so get rid of him.... (read in full...)
I feel like everything is going downhill at the moment...
Q. i feel like everything is going downhill for me at the moment. me and my mum keep falling out, and i mean proper massive arguments about stupid things that i have or havent done. and my love life is even worse. if i'm honest, i'm lonely. i h...
A. 3 August 2008: Everyone goes through this its all part of growing i went through the exact same thing you are going through now and it will get better eventually things just seem a lot worse than they really are right now. Message me if you want to talk.... (read in full...)
We met once in person, became long distance friends, we flirt, and kid, he has never inquired about my marital status or anything, why not, what do you think he is looking for and is it worth my time?
Q. I've being friends with this guy since a year and 1/2. We met in person b/c of business but we never talked about marital status. He had to split due other businesses far away, but I manage to contacted him short after that.He replied and we started ...
A. 3 August 2008: Sorry to say this but i dont think he wants a relationship from you with you living far apart and you only taking once or twice a month. i aggree with you i think he will probably will be with somone.you should just remain friends and you should ... (read in full...)
A complicated 8 years...when is it time to throw in the towel?
Q. I'm writing in search of advice for my present situation. I am 26 years old and have been living with my boyfriend for the past 8 years. Both of our families consider this more like a marriage, which I agree with because things have gotten so ...
A. 3 August 2008: You should not stay with him when you are this unhappy dont just stay with him for the house and the money,being with somone for the last 8 years you are bound to be scared of breaking it off and being alone but you will make it on your own because ... (read in full...)
I need to forget my ex and everything he did but I can't stop thinking about it!
Q. I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. I broke up with my ex last december because he treated me like dirt and now I am with this great guy who I love so much and our relationship could possibly lead to getting married in the distant ...
A. 3 August 2008: It can be really hard to let go of the past,have you talked about what you went through with somone cause it helps to get things out.you just have to remember that not all men are the same,focus on your current boyfriend and how much he loves ... (read in full...)
We're about to get married but he does not kiss me or hold me, he says it's became habbit and he's been getting his kicks from porn! Help!
Q. i have been with my bf for 4years now sex was never really a big part of our relationship but things are now so bad he dosnt even kiss me or hold me he says its became habbit and he's been getting his kicks from porn i'm a very good looking gal ...
A. 3 August 2008: You should not get married when you are this unhappy you should be with someone who you no wants you in every way.Sex is pretty important it shows that the person desires us, but couples have problems talk to him make it very clear how you feel ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my bf as I fell for my best friend...but he likes someone else...
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend because i fell for my bestfriend. but my bestfriend likes someone else. should i tell my bestfriend how i feel about him?...
A. 3 August 2008: you should tell him how you feel you never no he could feel the same way if don't tell him you will always wonder what if.go for it girl!good luck.let me no how it goe's... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend got raped by her current boyfriend. She maybe pregnant. WHat can I do to help her?
Q. This is basically an update from my previous questions but I just need help. So my ex and I broke up and were going through a very rough time and during that time..she was....uhm...kinda weird to say..but yeah she was raped..by her current boyfrien...
A. 3 August 2008: you should go to the police you cannot let him get away with it.what the hell is she doing with him after that so what if she's pregnant he does not deserve to be a father.All you can do is be there for her like you are now but dont let him get away ... (read in full...)
I've recnetly got together with the girl of my dreams, but I'm worried about my inexperience in bed.
Q. I've (very) recently got together with the absolute girl of my dreams. I thought this would make me happy, but the fact is that sex is a problem. She's very experienced, while the last time I was with a girl was well over two years ago. In fact, ...
A. 3 August 2008: Hi you should talk to her about this because if your feeling all this stress when it doe's happen then its probably is not going to go well.Just tell her she should understand and if she does'nt then she is not worth it, just take things slow.... (read in full...)
Should I get back with him? I'm confused.
Q. My ex-boyfriend and i were together for a year and a half, he was the first guy i ever loved etc... he cheated on me and so i left him like 14 months ago. We talk on occasion if we run into each other but i dont call him and vice versa. We've been ...
A. 1 August 2008: It all depends how you feel about him if you still have feelings for him and you feel you can trust him this time then give him another chance.somtimes people make mistakes but if you don't feel you can trust him don't bother trying it want make ... (read in full...)
Is she too good for me? How should I go about this situation?
Q. What do I do. I am seeing a girl casually but I have noticed another girl through work who is absoutly stunning. I really think that looks wise she is the perfect girl. I finally spoke to her last week and she seems, classy, well dressed and is ...
A. 1 August 2008: First of all you have to end it with the other girl before you try anything with the one from work because its not fair to her and the girl from work might not give you a chance whilst your seeing someone. Be confident ou bearly no this woman for ... (read in full...)
I'm dreaming of my Ex and heartbroken, what can I do?
Q. i keep having this dream of my ex-girlfriend with her boyfriend. its getitng more real everytime and i dont know what it is. i was going out with my first love. i had a bestfriend and than we sorta stopped hangingout but still friends. one day...
A. 1 August 2008: The dream will stop eventually, but i dont think anyone gets over their first love i no i have not either the harder you try to get rid of the feeling the stronger they seem to get. If you cut her out of your life for awhile an focus on your new ... (read in full...)
I want a relationship, not meaningless sex! I'm confused.
Q. hi im confused. theres a lad i like but all he seems to want is sexual stuff... he says he wouldnt do anything with me drunk because id wud be taking advantage and he said he wouldnt wanna do that. But he says he doesn't fancy me and he said ...
A. 26 July 2008: Im was goin through the samething awhile ago and you no what he's not worthit move on and find somone that wont play games with you.... (read in full...)
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