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anonymous
writes:hi i have no privacy when i first set up facebook account i did so useing my partners email add,it was his idea.an also i did,nt have email add cus i only recently started useing a computer.unknown to me i did,nt know everytime i got contacted on facebook my stuff would end up on his windows live,which he reads all of it.also i av a male friend who is gay,an them comments from him an messages he reads also.i feel like im being checked up on all the time,which is not a nice feeling.i dont feel as though i can change his email add of my facebook cus i feel he would think if i did that i am giving out the inpression i have things to hide...which i dont.so what do i do i feel like im in catch 22 situation,any advice would be much appreciated thankyou.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmany thanks to you all as before i did,nt know you could turn of these settings on facebook.thankyou
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reader, person12345  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Just change the email setting to send to you. Explain to him that you want to know when someone sends you a message or something. It's reasonable to want notifications sent to you not him. Besides, if you don't have access to his facebook, he shouldn't have access to yours.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (8 March 2011):
Set up a new email address, and change your address in Facebook. Do not tell your boyfriend the password. It seems easily solved, but it sounds to me his trust issues in your relationship are a far wider problem than the one you have described. Are you sure this relationship is working for you? It wouldn't for me, no way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): Everything you would put on Facebook would be public and anyone would see it (unless you make some security settings to your account) and also of course there are emails sent by Facebook to the email account you are registred with ..emails about what happened recently in your account etc etc (check the privacy settings on your account).
If your life is an open book then you have nothing to worry about but I would not expose my private life on Facebook.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): Just turn off your email notifications on FB (under account settings) and you can also change your email address on there too.
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