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writes:Um I have been single for nine years now for many reasons but now I want to change and start the dating thing again.I was visiting one of my family members and it's this guy who lives there it's her boyfriend.We were all laughing and talking they were drinking I don't so all of a sudden her bf says to me I"ll buy you a drink I want you to dance on the table for me I was speechless.We are all adults here so from time to time we talk about sex,toys ,etc.One day we were siting outside.My family member ,me ,and him and the other guest. He came in to the house and put his hand on my shoulder and told me all I need is a man's touch and I won't be celibate anymore I told him to get his mf hands off of me he laughed it off but I was dead serious.i think he is trying to see how far he can go what do you think;
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2012): There's absolutely no need for him to put his hand on your shoulder and tell you something you already know. I think he was coming onto you by dropping that little hint as if to say "The offer is there, you know where I am if you need me *Wink *wink*".
Just be cautious of him. He could be one of them that if he can't get his own way with you, he will go in a sulk and tell his woman that YOU are the one that has been coming on to HIM, and HE'S been trying to fend YOU off.
Without a doubt he will have his excuses ready just in case you decide to tell his woman about this.
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reader, Hennessy1989  +, writes (2 September 2012):
 To be honest I think he was just making a joke, I think your reading to much into it
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2012): Um sometimes he does this right before her face but I want her to see its not me I don't believe in laying with my sisters men .People that engages in things like this they are the lowest on earth I LOVE MY SISTER dearly and I be damn if i let this scum come between us.I don't trust him as far as I can see him?You learn what a person is like when you pay attention my sister is blind.
She can't see pass what he is doing for her and it's like dam the rest.You best believe he is cheating on her I don' t have to see it but I know it its coming from the gut.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2012): I can't day FOR certain if he was coming on TO YOU but he is most definitely one of those a holes that feel that a roll in the sack is the cure all for all of women's problems. I'm quite sure he knows that YOU were single FOR a while and felt like he should BE the one TO bring YOU back TO the human race so TO speak. Im really having mixed emotions about I speaking TO YOUR sister about this sleaze bag. The reason I say that IS BECAUSE I don't want this situation TO come between the two of YOUYOU would BE shocked at how this type of situation splits families apart. My advice TO YOU would BE TO let this a hole know YOU don't appreciate what he said AND did and if it happens again YOU will BE telling YOUR sister. Make a firm stance and let him know that he WILL keep is hands and his comments TO himself. I hope this helps. Good luck!
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