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writes: Ok I guess I just need someone to tell me if I'm thinking completely crazy about this or if I'm just being made to think I'm crazy.I was on holiday with my boyfriend for two weeks with his parents and his best friend and his family. While on holiday he was getting ratty with me and he would sigh and slam his hands on the table every five minutes and say I was talking to him like crap even though I was talking to him perfectly normally. I was actually shocked when he was doing it and I started to panic thinking maybe I was just spoke in a naturally nasty way. One evening we were all sitting in a bar together and I started to think about everything and it made me teary. I never said anything to anyone but his best friend noticed and asked what was wrong. I just said nothing and went to the bathroom to dry my eyes and when I came out my boyfriend asked if we could have a "chat". During this chat he started by saying "You know I could make YOU look like the bad guy by making myself cry" which shocked me straight off, then he said that "we just don't make each other happy any more and there was nothing we could do" which, I dunno about you, but I took as a dumping. So we went back and I was depressed and I got incredibly drunk and ended up staying out at a club with his friend, who at the time was the closest thing I had to a shoulder to cry on. I know this was probably a stupid thing to do but I had a choice of either going home to sleep in the same bed with him or staying out trying to enjoy myself and forget. However, now I feel like crap, and he is making out to his family as if I've been treating him like crap so they're treating me like dirt on the bottom of their shoe! What do I do!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006): His family are only hearing one side of the story which is his and you don't know if he's told them anything that resembles the truth.
Get away from him and his family and start a new.
They don't know the full story and that's their problem,not yours. You know what really happened and that is the main thing.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (10 January 2006):
 I would avoid that family. Your bf eas obviously playing head games with you in the beginning, probably trying to get you to break up with him to make him seem like the good guy. Whatever you did after he broke up with you can't really be used at ammo against you because it was after the relationship was over. Just get away from him and his family, they just want to make you feel bad. Good luck.
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