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writes: Hi there!I want somebody I can't have! I have been flirting over emails with a guy at work for a few weeks and a couple of weeks ago we let the tension get the better of us and slept together. Now I know it was wrong and I'm sorry but couldn't help it. The terrible thing is that he's married, since then we haven't flirted at all, and we talk in passing. Neither of us are embarrassed, but I don't know if he's waiting for me to make the first move or whether he's thinking I regret it simply because the first time I saw him I went red -- just a normal reaction -- but I'm fine when I see him now. Do I just leave it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2006): This is a good one. The is the reverse for me. I am the married one and flirt with this guy at work and through sugjestive emails. I think about what it might be like to be with him. I get all nervous when i am going to see him. i have been married for 12 yrs. nothing has happen but that dont't mean it couldn't. So from the married point of view,i think he was caught up in the excitement and danger of getting caught and something new and different than his wife. so if the sex is good and you can continue this with him without developing feelings just keep doing it...Your not the married one. But i can almost guarante that he will NEVER leave his wife, this is just some fun to spice up his life...be carefull and take care
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reader, shania  +, writes (9 January 2006):
 If i was you i would just forget it and put it down to a moment of madness.This married bloke has probably realized that he shouldnt of gone this far with you and doesnt want to put his marriage in jeopardy.For all you know, this man might be a chancer and has done it before with some other woman,i think its best that you just let him go and find someone else who you wont have to share with.
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