I thought he was single and we dated but it turns out, he had a girlfriend!

A female , anonymous writes:

Thanks to everyone who takes the time to answer this. People have busy schedules and I appreciate it. I dated a guy who I thought was single. I went out with him once and then discovered he had a girlfriend.We got kind of intimate but I held back. I backed off but he offered his friendship and I kept in contact with him thru email on occasion. The smartest thing for me would have not to do this but I did. He would always respond but I could tell that I was not a priority and that he was just being polite. I am generally pretty stable but I lost it the other night and ended it after four months of email. To be totally honest I think he was relieved. He commented that I was sarcastic in this email and I was..hurt and angry. We run in the same circles sometimes and this could be awkward...any tips on how to deal with the tension would be appreciated. I am feeling a little blue about this...any tips on how to snap out of it appreciated.

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A female reader, burningbridges  +, writes (22 June 2007):

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