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I thought he was a player, so why is he obsessing over me??

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Question - (31 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *RYSTLE writes:

I have been dating this guy for almost 2 months, on and off. it seemed like it was going nowhere, so I slept with this other guy I had just met not that long ago. He knew I was already seeing someone and He's kind of a player so I assumed he knew it would be just sex. I was wrong.

Ever since then he keeps telling me he loves me and he wants me. Found out where I work and went there and caused a scene. I told my boss, and now he's not allowed in the restaurant, but hell hide and wait by my car until I get out. Found out where my bf lives and he's threatened me that hell kill us both.

I tried getting a restraining order but can't because I don't have enough info on him.

What I wanna know is, why is he doing this? What made him so obsessed? (besides him being crazy) because I know he's hooked up with lots of other girls before and he's never gotten like this

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntHe's nuts because he can't have you.

MAKE SURE YOU CALL THE POLICE EVERY TIME HE COMES NEAR YOU. You don't have to wait to get a restraining order. Make the call and after you have your police reports you can go back for the order. Please take care of yourself and be aware of the safety risk this poses to you. Have a friend or coworker with you every chance you get.

Good luck. Be careful.

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