New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login239626 questions, 1059404 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I thought he liked me back but apparently he's "in a relationship" , which I saw on Facebook today. I feel like such an idiot now!

Tagged as: Crushes<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (17 April 2017) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2017)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met a guy a month ago through mutual friends and he kept liking all my FB photos and statuses. I have been on Facebook today and it now says he 'is in a relationship'. I feel a bit of a mug as I was hoping to get to know him more. I know it's early days but am I best to avoid him or still be on friendly terms? I don't want to fall for him but ignoring him seems rude. Does that mean he must of known this woman longer than a month? I don't know if he has made up the relationship status to get attention. Just feel fed up at the moment.

View related questions: facebook

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (19 April 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntErm well him liking things on facebook doesn't mean that he was ever going to be interested romantically. I am really not sure why there is an issue. If you liked him why not make a move within the month to try and get to know him better?

Just accept he is with someone and move on. Be friendly with him if you like. Ignoring him seems a bit childish.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (18 April 2017):

Honeypie agony auntHide his feeds or just stop checking out HIS Facebook.

It doesn't make you a MUG to think that he could have been interested, but it WOULD make you a mug if you actually give a flying fart about "being rude" to this guy. YOU barely know him (if I read your post correctly). Just either hide his feeds or block him, WHY the need to keep him around?

If a guy makes up a "relationship status" for attention then what kind of immature twat is he? Is he 12?

Eh, BE glad you dodged THAT bullet. Time to move on.

<-- Rate this answer


A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2017):

Avoid avoid avoid !!!!! Dont even go there ...if u do text keep it cool ...nothing deep....dont chase him he's spoken for !!!

<-- Rate this answer


Add your answer to the question "I thought he liked me back but apparently he's "in a relationship" , which I saw on Facebook today. I feel like such an idiot now!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft