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36-40,
*ecille
writes:Ok, where do I start. I have this friend and we are very close to each other and I recently realised that i may be in love with him. The problem is that he has a girlfriend and a baby and I have a boyfriend but my relationship with my boyfriend is a bit rocky. It hurts me more if my friend is upset with me than my boyfriend. We flirt alot with each other, we even kissed a couple times and have come quite close to being sexually involved. i know he cares but I'm not sure how much or what to do because I dont want to cause drama for him but I cant help how I feel about him. So what am I to do?
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reader, cuninglingwist  +, writes (4 September 2007):
"we even kissed a couple times and have come quite close to being sexually involved. i know he cares "
the only thing he cares about is getting in your pants!
then he,s gone, wake up,
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (3 September 2007):
 I think if you persue things here it is going to cause alot of friction for everyone. Its all complicated, you have a boyfriend, and he has a girlfriend and a baby. If he goes with you he risks losing his child, or at least only seeing him/her at weekends through a court order, plus CSA payments. So all in all he stands to lose a hell of a lot more than you do.What are you to do?. Well i would leave this this one alone and save getting and causing a load of heartache.Good luck x
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