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Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...

Q.   Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in ...

A.   27 February 2011: relationships ended. end of.... (read in full...)

Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...

Q.   Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in ...

A.   13 February 2011: 1) Because i don't have the same feelings for my ex anymore nor does she have any feelings for me. we broke up 2years ago and that was that. if she has feelings for me, i would not attempt anything and i've just got back in contact with her ... (read in full...)

Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...

Q.   Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in ...

A.   13 February 2011: thank you so much :)... (read in full...)

Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...

Q.   Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in ...

A.   13 February 2011: i'm not getting pissy with the answers that are given to me, i'm just clearly stating how i feel and my views, thoughts and opinions. sorry if it seems that way but i'm a straight up kinda girl and i don't sugar coat things, if i don't like ... (read in full...)

Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...

Q.   Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in ...

A.   13 February 2011: "Not trying to be a downer, but how many times have those words been said right before a life-altering mistake?" - None in my life to be honest. I live my life my way and I live it to the fullest that I can because we only get ONE chance. How do you ... (read in full...)

Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...

Q.   Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in ...

A.   13 February 2011: i really love my boyfriend but things aren't perfect between us, far from it. the reason i wanted an open relationship was to have my own space and a bit of freedom to kind of explore and experiment. i wouldn't say i'm not ready for a committed ... (read in full...)

Can I stop myself becoming bisexual?

Q.   I have an amazing bf and I love him to bits but i always watch lesbian porn coz its much more of a turn on and also sometimes i see girls and i dont think id mind having sex with them! i dont like the thought of being bisexual, can i stop myself or ...

A.   12 February 2011: there are so many of these questions is unbelievable. ok, porn does NOT determine somebody's sexuality, ok? jut because a straight person watches gay/lesbian porn does not mean that its gonna make them change their mind about their sexuality or how ... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend but I think I'm a lesbian!

Q.   Hi everybody, I'm a senior girl in high school and i've never really had a boyfriend before. I've had some dreams about girls for 2 or 3 years and already asked dearcupid to know if it meant something or not. They said it's just hormones and my ...

A.   12 February 2011: you are quite possibly a lesbian and it does seem like it from my point of view. are you physically and emotionally attracted to just girls or guys as well? or do you feel physically attracted to guys and both with girls? another thing i would li... (read in full...)

Lesbian or bisexual?

Q.   Okay so I recently came out to my family and friends as a lesbian. I love the idea of having a sexual and emotional relationship with a woman. But something has been bugging me lately. When I see good looking guys I think, "oh, they're really s...

A.   12 February 2011: it could mean that you are bisexual but physicality shouldn't really change your sexuality. if you are only emotionally attracted to just women then you are most definitely a lesbian. sex and sex appeal does not determine a persons sexuality at all.... (read in full...)

I like watching lesbian porn, does this mean I am bi sexual?

Q.   i have a boyfriend but i like to watch lesbians kissing and naked girls and i find some of my friends and even girls i walk by very attractive...does this mean i am bisexual? please help me im a confused 14 year old girl! x...

A.   12 February 2011: some people's answers actually annoy me. basically, just because you are turned on or physically attracted to another girl and you like watching naked girls and lesbian porn, it does not make you bisexual or a lesbian. it could mean you have a ... (read in full...)

I'm not bisexual or lesbian, but is this feeling normal to have?

Q.   i'm not bisexual or lesbian, but is this feeling normal to have? sometimes when i see this lady that i know for quite sometime, i see her touching, rubbing, stroking her neck, arm, shoulders, etc. i get this feeling in my vagina. am i aroused or ...

A.   12 February 2011: you are obviously aroused and turned on by women but do you have emotional feelings for them? would you ever date another women? if not, then you are straight and you are just thinking more of it than you should and are aroused by what she is doing ... (read in full...)

Am I a lesbian, bisexual or just perverted?

Q.   Hi!I have a question for you.Well,I am 25 years old,and over this last months I think...I ve changed. Since I was 7 years old, I masturbate, and think about sex at all times. I also remember thinking about sex before that age. So, since then,I e...

A.   12 February 2011: its just a really strong sexual fantasy.... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and think I've developed a very bad habit!

Q.   I Have a small confession. I am only 13 and i was at my friend's party and they started watching adult porn and i really enjoyed it .. i don't know why. Does it mean I'm a lesbian because i like to watch girls have sex???...

A.   12 February 2011: "if you are aroused by women, it would mean you're at least bisexual." this statement is untrue. sex nor does porn determine someone's sexuality just because it turns you on. you are born a certain way, and porn doesn't change it! you will know if ... (read in full...)

My gf will only watch girl on girl porn, does this mean shes bi??

Q.   My girlfriend and i watch porn about once every three months, however she will only watch all girl on girl she gets very hot horny and we have the best sex so im not complaning. Does this mean shes bi? She said shes not. ...

A.   12 February 2011: no, porn doesn't determine a sexuality in a person, you are born a certain way and its very clear that she's straight. many straight people watch gay/lesbian porn just because they think its "hot", it turns them on and gets them off. that is all, so ... (read in full...)

I'm confused! Am I gay?

Q.   Am i gay? I'm 19 and was with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have always looked at girls and been able to openly say 'oh they are hot', and i've kissed girls drunkenly at parties but nothing more. I have fantasized about having sex with a girl and thin...

A.   12 February 2011: you are obviously bisexual because you have feelings for her and you like her a lot. you obviously enjoy talking to this girl and you both have chemistry, there is nothing wrong with it. my opinion is, don't limit yourself to just guys and don't ... (read in full...)

I'm female and get turned on by lesbian porn???

Q.   im not a lesbian or bi. i dont find women sexually or mentally attractive at all. im completely 100% straight. but i get turned on and have orgasms to lesbian porn. what does that mean? please help !!...

A.   12 February 2011: it just means it turns you on and gets you off, nothing more...... (read in full...)

Am I too young to be bisexual?

Q.   Heya, im 12 years old. I just wanted to know... Am i too young to decide to be bi-sexual? Because i like watching lesbian porn and, i know it semi-normal at my age to feel like this but as i said, do you guys think im too young to decide to be bi? ...

A.   12 February 2011: you're not too young to be feeling this way or wanting to know and determine your sexuality. although i would say keep your options and your sexuality open until you start dating later on. don't limit yourself to just guys if you think you like ... (read in full...)

I enjoy getting off to lesbian porn, but dont actually fancy women !!???

Q.   am i gay? i am 19 im attracted to guys and love having sex with guys but i keep havin lesbian fantasies and it turns me on to watch lesbian porn but im not attracted to girls, i am so confused........

A.   12 February 2011: you answered your own question. its a sexual fantasy.... (read in full...)

I need an opinion from straight women who watch porn.

Q.   I need an opinion from straight women who watch porn. What type of porn do you watch - intercourse, lesbian, blowjobs etc. I also need an opinion from gay women who watch porn. What type of porn do you watch - intercourse, lesbian, blowjobs etc...

A.   12 February 2011: ok, i'm bisexual and i watch lesbian and straight porn. porn doesn't determine a sexuality just because of gender. ... (read in full...)

How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual?

Q.   ok, I have another lil' prob. How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual? (I have a boyfriend and like him a lot) Like when I watch porn, I watch lesbian porn only! There have been a few occasions where I have looked at a girl and said "I'd like t...

A.   12 February 2011: being bisexual isn't just about sex or the physicality of it, to be bi or gay you have to be emotionally attracted to the same gender! porn nor does sex change your sexuality. you are born a certain way. ask yourself these things ok; "would i ever ... (read in full...)

Could I be bi sexual?

Q.   I am 19 years old and i have a boyfriend. I find men attractive and i like having sex with them. My sex life is quite normal for my age and im only interested in dating men and pulling men and i always have been. The only thing is, i get off more on ...

A.   12 February 2011: You aren't bi-curious. you're straight. all it is, is that its a sexual fantasy. you basically answered you're own question. you are only physically and emotionally attracted to guys and wouldn't ever be emotionally attracted to a women therefore ... (read in full...)

Does this make me a lesbian?

Q.   This is gonna be one long winded question, so yeah! Anyway, I'm currently seventeen. I've been dating my current boyfriend for 3 years. When I was young (about 9-10) I used to have the biggest crushes on boys, and it's been that way forever. ...

A.   12 February 2011: sexual fantasy? straight people can and do watch gay/lesbian porn. chances are you're straight or confusing a sexual fantasy for your own sexual orientation. all you can do is experiment and see where it goes..... (read in full...)

I don't like women in any way but I watch lesbian porn. What does this mean?

Q.   im 110% straight. but i watch lesbian porn. i dont like women in that way just the porn. what does this mean??...

A.   12 February 2011: it means you're straight but lesbian porn turns you on and gets you off. that is all...... (read in full...)

If I watch lesbian porn does that mean I am a lesbian?

Q.   dear cupid, I regularly watch lesbian porn. i am a girl aswell. I dont know if i'm a lesbian or not because i'm still attracted to boys. But not attracted to girls. i don't know what to do! help!...

A.   12 February 2011: ok. being bisexual, i kinda understand. straight people, you probably don't understand. just because gay/lesbian porn turns you on, doesn't mean to say that you are gay or bisexual. it just turns you on, it gets you off, that is all. if you can have ... (read in full...)

Watching lesbian porn turns me on! Normal or not?

Q.   right, this might sound wierd but i enjoy watching lesbian porn, in turns me on. but im not a lesbian, is this really strange? does it make me a lesbian, because i really like men and i wud defo say im staight but then i dont know why i get turned...

A.   12 February 2011: ok. being bisexual, i kinda understand. straight people, you probably don't understand. just because gay/lesbian porn turns you on, doesn't mean to say that you are gay or bisexual. it just turns you on, it gets you off, that is all. if you can have ... (read in full...)

I only like to watch lesbian porn, does this mean I'm gay?

Q.   Dont judge me but i started watching porn a few weeks ago but only like female solo or lesbians... so does this mean i am a lesbian? thanks :)...

A.   12 February 2011: A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010) - please don't listen to this person, they haven't a clue what they are talking about. watching porn is normal and if it helps get you off then good for you. like i've said on many questions like ... (read in full...)

Does watching lesbian porn means I'm lesbian? I've never been attracted to girls!

Q.   Dear ppl, Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation. I used to watch porn and I stopped because I hated it and I felt disgusted every time I do it. I watched lesbian porn and I felt sth during watching it but I HATED it afterwards and I...

A.   12 February 2011: straight people can watch gay/lesbian porn and still get turned on. it could also be a sexual fantasy. if you don't feel emotionally or even physically attracted to girls then you aren't bi or a lesbian, it just turns you on and its something you ... (read in full...)

I like watching lesbian porn, does this mean I am bi sexual?

Q.   i have a boyfriend but i like to watch lesbians kissing and naked girls and i find some of my friends and even girls i walk by very attractive...does this mean i am bisexual? please help me im a confused 14 year old girl! x...

A.   12 February 2011: it could just hormones or a sexual fantasy or maybe you are bisexual, but there isn't a way to know for sure until you date the same sex and figure out what your feeling. are you emotionally attracted to girls and could you date the same gender? or ... (read in full...)

How to have sex with another girl!

Q.   ... hi i'm 19 years old and i think i might be a lesbian cus all i think about is my friends breasts and how they would looknaked. i would really like to have sex with a girl but how?... i only no how to with the oppoursite sex. please help...

A.   12 February 2011: this maybe just be a sexual fantasy..... (read in full...)

How do you have sex with another girl? Any useful tips?

Q.   I'm 19 years old and a lesbian. We have done all the kissing aspects but want to move it onto the next level... sex. We have talked it through and are positive about it, we've searched the net but can't find anything! How do you have sex with ...

A.   12 February 2011: There really isn't a right or wrong way to have sex for any sexuality. watch lesbian porn? even though its acted out and they're not really enjoying it, you will get the general idea. its also good to know your own body before adding somebody ... (read in full...)

I'm bisexual, but should I wait until I've been with another girl before Im really open about it ?

Q.   Hi, I really need help. For the past 3 years or so, I've known I was bisexual. About a month ago I came out to my friends. At first they were a bit suprised but accepted me for it and they sort of joke about it but they mean well. But the problem is ...

A.   12 February 2011: I say this to most people who are/think they are bisexual. its been three years but you haven't dated any women? i'd leave your sexuality open but don't deny being bisexual to anyone because the longer you leave it to come out, its gonna get harder ... (read in full...)

I think I'm bi, but I feel I have no way to know

Q.   This sounds so silly, but to put it bluntly, I am a sexually confused teenage girl. I have never been in a relationship, never actually done anything, shit, i haven't even had my first kiss yet.(can you say doofus?) But still I think I'm a sexual ...

A.   12 February 2011: I think that because you're young and you haven't had sexual intercourse with either girls or guys that you should wait until you start dating but leave your sexuality open, as in bisexual and experiment. i'm not saying have sex with every gu... (read in full...)

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