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female
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26-29,
primrose
writes:i've been in a four and a half year relationship and now were having trouble. Im 25 and he's 27,were now having some time apart to decide what we want, but im now scared that he'll say he doesnt want to work on things and give up. which will leave me on my own. I havent got any one i can talk to. I love him, im scared to lose him.and i have tried all ready to work on things, and had to moan at him to work on things because he doesnt try hard enough. he has money problems to sort out,he lives with his mum, he is more loyal to his mates than to me.i wonder if he all ready has everything he needs? i agree time apart would do us both good, but after two days im all ready finding it hard. i cant stop thinking about him, i miss him.I've decided i need him to really commit to me or its a waste of time. how is the best way to handle this situation? im trying to keep myself busy, im thinking of going to aerobics, but i havent got any friends to ask so i have to go on my own. and if we do split up, how do i get over him?
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume he initiated the time apart? After 4 yrs and you are still not in a committed relationship and you are just beginning to have an idea that your time may be in jeopardy of being wasted? I think it's a great idea to start going to that class and make some friends. That's going to be the best way to handle this situation, it doesn't sound like your boyfriend is going to be offering you much in the future.
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