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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend slept with me two or three times when he were broken up with his girlfriend that he had after me and then left me when the girl came around. (At that time I still loved him and wanted him back...)While we hung out when they were broken up, he looked miserable and asked for secure love and comfort from me - well he did not say it but that is what I figured from his looks and actions....Our sex was filled with extra emotions that were not there between two of us - he was sad and lonely.Is that why he slept with me to get some attention and love from me? Why in the world did he choose me as his rebound girl when he could easily pick up a girl if he just want sex? (He is really popular and good looking....) I feel so used by him. I feel like he used me not just for sex but for something more than that. Please give me some insight what my ex did to me.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (9 June 2009):
 He picked you because he didn't have to work for sex. You were right there and available.
Honey, you were used for sex and an ego boost. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you and not someone else. I'm sorry that you're in this situation...now it's time to move on.
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reader, shaniquas3 +, writes (9 June 2009):
dude played you like a sucker..come on girl have sum class and move on.don't waste YOUR LIFE that is extremely short worried bout sum dude..yes he used you and ita time to move on honey it's not worth consuming your time over some dude when theres a million others that are willing to love you and actually care for you!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 I don't think I can really tell what happened. It seems that your exboyfriend had a girl, then broke up with her, then was with you, and then broke up with you and returned to her. If I understand correctly, then yes, it could be that he used you. At least we can say that he didn't really love you. But I don't think we can be sure that his purpose was simply using you.
As to why people get used, sometimes it's because of who they are, and sometimes because they just happen to be around.
Don't think about him or what he did, and move on. You don't have time to waste.
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