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Beaten and abused and I need a way out

Q.   please help me..ok i am 16 years old and my mom is very physically abusive and verbally abusive towards me.i have been in state custody once because i reported her.i was in state custody for 7 mths and i loved it my foster parents were great.well ...

A.   15 July 2009: I want to think u guys for all the good advice. You all have really helped me. I have made the choice to stay with my dad. And i live in tennessee by the way. . And thanks again... (read in full...)

Should I just get it over with?

Q.   I’m 16 and I still haven't had my first kiss. All my friends tease me about it and I’m just not that type of girl to go on dates and kiss. Plus I want my first kiss to be special and with someone I really like. And I also am a virgin. Sometimes I ...

A.   15 July 2009: thank you guys so much especially devils angel you all helped me so much i still havent did anything...and i took the pledge to wait till marriage and have sex so thank you all:)... (read in full...)

There's a difference in age and maturity...what should I do?

Q.   i like this boy he's 13 and im 16..big age difference.im more womanly and filled out and mature acting and he just seems like a little innocent boy who sits back and listens to his ipod(typical 13 yr old).but he is really attractive to me for some ...

A.   10 June 2009: thanaks agony aunts.i havent talk to him but i still look at him everyday and think about what could possibly be.but as you guys said he is to young so i guess ill just move on to someone older.and thanx again:)... (read in full...)

Wanted to talk to girl at club, she wouldn't after talking with her friends, why are women so insecure?

Q.   i approached a girl at a club and i asked if i could have a chat with her. enthusiastically she said "yea why not, but leme talk to my friends first cuz we're leavin soon, so i'l be back". after a couple of minutes i noticed she was around me with ...

A.   9 June 2009: she prolly didnt want to be mean and said yeah..when she really wanted to say no..ignoring you so that u would get the message to get away from her..duh.... (read in full...)

Wondering how people's 'first times' were?

Q.   Okay so I've been awfully curious about how different first times having sex has gone. This isn't like an advice needed thing. I would just like to hear how male and female first times went. Did you regret it after? What made you feel like you were ...

A.   9 June 2009: im 16 and still a virgin!!im happy with my choice cause people look up to me and it makes me feel different..my motto DARE TO BE DIFFERENT!... (read in full...)

How can I stop being in denial?

Q.   Every once in a while I text my guy friend who hasn't been talking to me and ask him a question. Well last night he answered finally jus to prove that I spelled something wrong then after 2 texts he ignored me again. I don't get it if he wanted to ...

A.   9 June 2009: text him this:WHY ARE YOU ACTING LIKE AN IMMATURE ASS,IF YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK TO ME YOU COULD OF SAID SO..BUT ITS COOL IF YOU DON'T I WON'T TALK TO YOU AGAIN!!GOOD DAY..then dont text him again.if he wants to talk to you then he will.you cant just ... (read in full...)

Bi-curious boyfriend

Q.   My boyfriend told me a few months ago that he used to mess around with guys when he was 15. He said that it was with a few guys and it only lasted for a year or so. I don't know what to think about this? He is kinda feminine and it is always in the ...

A.   9 June 2009: um yes honey.your guy is GAY.move on.that wasn't a phase,one day or a week is a phase..BUT ONE YEAR!!!!girl u gon mess around and catch aids messin wit him..just keep a eye on him and see if he is lookin at other dudes even a lil bit..or ask him to ... (read in full...)

I think I was used as a rebound girl for my ex boyfriend, but don't understand why he picked me?

Q.   My ex boyfriend slept with me two or three times when he were broken up with his girlfriend that he had after me and then left me when the girl came around. (At that time I still loved him and wanted him back...) While we hung out when they were b...

A.   9 June 2009: dude played you like a sucker..come on girl have sum class and move on.don't waste YOUR LIFE that is extremely short worried bout sum dude..yes he used you and ita time to move on honey it's not worth consuming your time over some dude when theres a ... (read in full...)

I prefer her sister to her!

Q.   I met this girl through a friend and we started texting each other but her sister got my number and now she says she loves me and I have met them both but I just want her sister to forget me but i dont know how to tell her without hurting her ...

A.   9 June 2009: if her sister(the one that got the number somehow)started just texting you knowing that her sister liked you first then that just shows that she is a back stabber and is willing to do anything to hurt her sisters feelings..i think that you should ... (read in full...)

There's a difference in age and maturity...what should I do?

Q.   i like this boy he's 13 and im 16..big age difference.im more womanly and filled out and mature acting and he just seems like a little innocent boy who sits back and listens to his ipod(typical 13 yr old).but he is really attractive to me for some ...

A.   5 June 2009: thanks for those who helped!!!didn't help much but thanx... (read in full...)

Confused on what to do with my girlfriend of 4 months

Q.   I've been my girlfriend for the past 4 months now and at the moment it seems like she's letting me down 24/7. she's my first love, I love her to bits and i really want things to change but the thing is, i see her about 2-3 hours a week even though ...

A.   5 June 2009: i think you should break up with her and move on.If she antd to be with you and loved you as much as youl oved her she would make the effort to come and see you and not make sob exuses.... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to kiss him in case he freaks out! Help!

Q.   Okay I've been dating this guy for 6 months and we still havn't kissed yet! I want to kiss him but he freaks out. I want to give him a surprise kiss on the lips but I'm afraid that when I get close or go to kiss him he'll freak out and make me look ...

A.   5 June 2009: don't do it.if he wants to kiss you he will.don't force it cause if you do that yu both are going to regret it.so just wait for the right moment and don;t rush into things.... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!

Q.   I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...

A.   5 June 2009: no your body is your temple.give it to somebody who you love and truust.im 16 and im a virgin.if i can do it you can do it!... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!

Q.   I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...

A.   5 June 2009: NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!im a 16 year old girl and i got a bangin body and boys want to take my virginity to and CONSTANTLY beg..listen lil mama..ur body is a temple!!!dnt do it and dnt give into the temptation of it..who cares if everybody is doing ... (read in full...)

My mind still wants sex, but my body says no. Help!

Q.   I am 62 years old, my partner is 40. I am tired, she wants to party. I understand that, I was there. WE ARE GAY. My mind still wants sex, but my body says no. I am scared of the future. Help me. ...

A.   5 June 2009: you only have one life!!!!!!!go for it. when u drop dead that is when it is time for you to stp gettin it on!!!if u have the feeling u cant leave it unanswered or its gonna build up inside and explode and ur gonna do it anyways!!... (read in full...)

She got feelings for me and our friendship is ruined!

Q.   so im 16 years old and my teaching set changed this year and there was this girl that i didnt usually talk to, but this year she sits next to me (alphabetical) and i got to know her and i was nice to her but as a friend and she started to get ...

A.   5 June 2009: looks don't matter..well u wouldnt think that cause ur young.but i think u should give her a chance and be GO0D FRIENDS with her.don't be mean.she's only acting like that cause she is embarrased to talk to you cause she knows you know she likes ... (read in full...)

Sex in the woods to lose my virginity?

Q.   So me and this guy "Alex" have been talking all school year. We pass notes all the time and we always joked about having sex, especially because at my school, everyone think I get around. The truth is I'm a virgin. Well Alex asked me to go to a lake ...

A.   5 June 2009: hno girl have sum respect for urself..shoow sum class!!!dnt do that he only usin u to hit!!... (read in full...)

I'm dating someone who my best friend also liked...help!

Q.   My boyfriend and I just started dating but the problem is my best friend likes him and she liked him frist. At first I didn't feel the guilt because I was happy but now I feel sooo guilty and for some reason now I hate him. Please help me with my ...

A.   5 June 2009: i think you should talk to your friend about it and tell her that you really like him and your sorry that you went with him but yall had major chemistry and you loved it!!!if she is your real friend she'll understand..and why would you be mad at him ... (read in full...)

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