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anonymous
writes:About a year in a half ago I started dating a co worker. It ended because he went back to his ex. I was heart broken but eventually moved on myself, with his roommate/best friend. I don't know exactly how it happneded. But now we are engaged and getting married in December. I still have doubts and I think I still have feelings for my ex. What should I do??
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (29 July 2010):
No i wouldn't go back to him if he left you and went back to his ex what does that say for you. the one you are w/ now has never done anything to you! why hurt him.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Show your fiance this email, and if he does not break up with you, then you must end the engagement.
-Frank
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): The fact that you started dating your ex's roomate/best friend speaks to your emotional and mental state of being. Out of all the people you could poss. date, why did it have to be with someone he is close with or knows?
Cancel the wedding if you don't truly love your fiance, but by no means should you try to get back with your ex. The guy didn't love you, he left you to be with an ex whom he probably still loves. Even if you and your ex did get back together...it would be for a short period of time and you would be a rebound for him.
You may have moved on physcially from your ex, but not mentally or emotionally and that's not good. This guy may never have feelings for you and he may always go back and forth with his ex..they will break up and get back together as I have seen this happen time and time again.
Get therapy, stay out of relationships for now--don't even think about dating unless you are also dating a person who is still in love with someone else and both of you are using each other as rebounds. You need time to heal and get complet. over your ex. Don't hold your breath thinking he will come back or fall for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): Key words: "I don't know exactly how it happneded". Cancel the wedding.
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