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writes: I'm soooooo confused about this one guy!! Ok well we were talking back and forth and he thought I was really cute and stuff, but when i asked his friend who he liked he wrote 10 girls he'd go out with and i wasn't on there...Then he would flirt with me and we would give each other "looks" when we walk by...He's confusing me so much! Does he like me but just doesn't want to admit it?! Plz Help!-Confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou know what "camille" you might be right! My friend could be jealous cuz he does think that i'm good loooking...but then again i don't know. This guy isn't the shallow type though. Well thanks for your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2006): You both sound very young and he was trying to 'play you' a bit. He's using a jealousy game to gain your interest. Immature, unthinking people do this type of this to others. What he did says a lot about 'who he really is'. Do you honesty want to date a guy who does this type of thing? Tell him to get his oversized 'ego' in check and you need to move on.
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reader, Bobbyjo  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Im sorry but this guy sounds so shallow to me I wouldnt even think about getting with him. I mean, writing out a list of people he would date - he must be a young boy!
Just see this little excercise as one of his fantasies, dont compare yourself to the other girls on the list. I really dont think hes worth bothering with, if I got with him I would always be worried about the other girls he was eyeing up - 10 people is alot to like at one time! Hes probably really choosy and could leave you borkenhearted.
I think you should look for someone a bit more 'real' instead of someone whos gonna mess you about and keep little lists of his love interests! U are better than that xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006): To add to the previous answer, maybe he didn't put you on the list because he's not sure if you like him...and wouldn't want to embarass himself by saying he likes you if you don't like him back. Also, maybe the friend that wrote it likes you, and wouldn't want you to know the guy you like likes you too...because then the friend wouldn't have as much of a chance with you. The only way to find out for sure is to ask the guy you like if he likes you too.
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reader, camille +, writes (1 June 2006):
 There's only one person who knows the answer and that's him. The fact he easily listed 10 girls he likes sounds like he's a young male with raging hormones (natural) or a bit of a player and I'd stay well away! I'm not sure why he wouldn't admit to liking you if he can list 10 girls. The fact your name wasn't on there could mean he likes you but doesn't want to go out with you. Some people flirt with anyone, and maybe if he suspects you like him, that's making him flirt more. Either way I'd put my energy into someone who likes you back and isn't chasing 10 other girls! (ps Not sure if the 'friend' who wrote that list on his behalf may be joking? It's up to you, if you think this boy does like you, do you have any reason to trust his friend??)
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