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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My daughter's dad is getting ready to head back home (out of state)some time in June 2008. He's been saying he's leaving for the past couple years however, I guess he's really leaving. I left him because of his deceitful ways, lies, etc. We have a daughter together however, I have full custody of her (he gave up his rights). He wanted to work things out but he would bring up the past and then I would try to move on from the past but when he mentions the past, I'll bring it up too. I am trying to trust him again but it isn't working. I still have feelings for him but I want to move on. When we work things out, we just get into arguments because he would bring up the past. He blames me for giving up his rights as our daughter's dad (I don't know how) and I'm tired of it. I've blocked him from my emails, chat, don't pick up when he calls and whatever else I can think of so I can move on with my life. Not only that, my daughter needs a man who will be a father to her, not a father when he wants to be. I still love him but I'm tired of being the part time girl and especially, the part time father. Any ideas on how I can go about this?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 May 2008):
 I'm confused, go about what? Sounds like some of your problems will be over in month anyway.
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