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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have like a female friend for about 6-7 years already. Initially, we only started texting each other but we progressed to talking on the phone everyday. This happens everynight after school(we are classmates). Eventually we realize that we love one another and we got together. However after a week, she said we weren't compatible and we broke up. I was devastated of course but we remain as friends over the years. Abt a year ago, she got into a relationship with a guy in her own university. I was depressed because I still like her very much. We still go out quite often with our group of friends and it was always awkward. I feel that she is the right girl for me and after all this years I still can't forget her so what should I do? Give up or continue to wait for a miracle
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reader, The Girl with the Diver's Hair  +, writes (22 February 2011):
Sit her down and tell her how you feel, that you still like her, always have and ask her about her feelings. I mean if she likes you then she will either tell you straight up, to your face or she will try and deny it. Its what most women do. But really do tell her because im guessing that it is eating you up not knowing what will happen next. Hey she might say yes!
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reader, katiebudge +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Well all I can say is you need to talk to her. let her know how you feel, whats the worst that can happen? she cant hate you for something you feel, it isn't your fault. just explain how you feel, and get her to tell you how she feels. even if she doesnt feel the same way, you need to know to put your mind at ease. if she doesn't feel the same way, then maybe take yourself away from the group for a while. try seeing other friends without her for a while. just explain to her that you need time away to get over her. but just give yourself space, she has to understand that your feelings have been hurt and you need time to think everything through and clear your head. but if she doesnt feel the same, its not the end of the world. you probably feel the way you do because your still so close to her. maybe you need to go out more with different people and meet other girls and become friends with them. if you stay with her then your feelings probably wont change. but you need to talk to her first, both of you just share all your feelings and see what happens.
I hope this helps
KatieBudget :D
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