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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I've been in a 2 year relationship with a girl who I became extremely close to, loved her to bits. Sadly as time went on I started to feel a bit as if the love wasn't as strong as it used to be and I'd been noticing more girls around. Unfortunetly I happened to fall for her old best friend who she randomly keeps in touch with, but things arent the same for them anymore its just an occasional catching up session every so often. My ex feels very strongly that her friend would never like me, but I mean she was wrong, we both have become vey close over the last 3 months but the problem is I havent distanced myself from my ex and we still get together and usually do foreplay. The reason I'm so caught up in this is 1) because I cant see how it would work with either of them. To be honest, Im sick of the lies, and 2) a few times me and this particular girl have "sexually" got quite close, at times its nice but at other time, it doesnt feel right, its as if she cant turn me on and I lose interest in any sexual acitivty for the rest of the night. Its doing my head in because I start to let my mind play on me and started thinking well if she can't turn me on am I not 100% straight etc or whether this is just a normal effect some people who were heavily in love can get towards another girl. i'd appreciate any help or advice you could give me.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (5 January 2007):
 i think you are 100% straight, the trick is your guilty concious that is eating you up, tell your ex what is happening between you and her friend, i believe the truth will set you free. good luck
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