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writes:I have lots of male friends and always have. I don't know whether they feel more for me but I only want them as a friend. However, my boyfriend seems to think one in particular is falling for me and is weird when I go out with this friend. Maybe he's right, I don't know, he's know the friend longer than I have but they're not close anymore.I don't want to lose a friend by distancing myself but my boyfriend thinks I'm giving guys the wrong impression. I don't flirt, I just treat them the way I treat my girlfriends, am I making him think there's more to this? My boyfriend thinks I should stop seeing so much of him, as people are talking. What do I do?Thanks
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reader, the_nameless_one +, writes (13 December 2006):
hey
i, like babygirl, have been in your situation too.
i can see that you don't want to break up with either of them. Just tell your friend that you only like him as a friend. I know you say you don't flirt and that's deffinatly a good sign... however, guys can be a bit thick in the head (no offence to you guys out there) so you just have to spell it for him.
And if he looks at you awkwardly as if to say 'what the hell are you talking about... of course i know that...'
then just tell him 'thats good then'.
and if he looks at you dissapointedly then there's not much you can do. At least you know you haven't led him on.
Explain this to your boyfriend and he should be happy.
If he's not, then he has jealousy issues and i hate to say it, but he kind of sucks.
Hope i helped.
xxnamelessxx
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