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writes: hey, I'm 15 years old. My boyfriend is 17. but he doesnt live here, he lives in another country.. i love him alot and he does too. We both think we are each other's ones! well i was thinking about losing it to him, do u think i should ? thnx Reply to this Question
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reader, scared16 +, writes (17 December 2006):
 only yuo can answer that question! if u need 2 ask it then i guess ur not really ready! how do u know ur ready? it will just happen if it feels right at thtym then go 4 it but ONLY wen it feels right! x x x
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reader, babieegirL +, writes (14 December 2006):
 Hey There,
For me, when it comes to the internet, I'm actually quite scared. I have read articles and watched news stories about young girls who claim that they were "in love" with someone that they met on the internet. There were no happy endings. I don't mean to scare you, if I did. This si just my opinion. He lives in another Country...Have you's two met in person?. If you guys met in person, then I wouldn't look too much into this because if he loves you as much as he says that he does, and if you love him as much as you say that you do, then I would say 'Go for it'. But if this is just an internet/phone relationship, then I say 'Be carful for what you ask for'.
I hope I've helped.
GoodLuck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): This is what I said at another thread very recently:
Aside from what the law may dicate, for you to ask that question, obviously means you're not ready. There is no age that measures anyone being ready for sex. Sex comes when two people have a dynamic emotional and/or physical connection towards each other.
For me, I didn't have to ask myself whether I was ready or not. It was just natural for me to want to kiss her, hold her close to me, and lead to other things that she also reacted on. I never had to ask anyone whether I am ready at age 15, or 16, or 20, or whatever.
Basically, if you have to ask, then simply, you are not ready mentally.
ON TOP of that, communicating through the internet and supposedly falling in love or rather lusting after him can be different than actually seeing and dating him in person. Not all relationships end up being successful after 'being together' through the internet, once they see how they really are in person.
I know a lot of very 'odd' and questionable people that some of my friends have 'met' over the net, and when we go and meet these people in person finally, they're not exactly how they are like over the net. Mind you, I'm not saying everyone is like that, but so far, the majority of the people we've met are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): no if he loves you as much as he says he does, he will wait untill you are really ready..I made the same mistake when I was 15 I am 38 now and I still have never gotten over it, your first time needs to be very special and with someone that you are really sure is the right peson dont let anyone talk you into anything, remember you have a mind of your own and if you stop and really think about this you will make the right choice good luck...
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