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I slept with the father of my son but I dont want to be back with him and dont want to hurt my bf!!

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Question - (20 April 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2006)
A female , *hort writes:

What am i going to do?

Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months and love him to pieces.My sons father came over and stayed the night and i ended up sleeping with him.

He told me he cares for me and would like us to get back together but i dont want to.

My boyfriends ex girlfriend chated on him and he took it really badly and i dont want to hurt him.I cant tell him but i dont want to keep it a secret.

Please help

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A female reader, lani +, writes (1 May 2006):

hi if you really want to end your relationship with your boyfriend the go ahead tell him but if u do lv this man 2 pieces dont ul only hurt him + he will walk away from you,but you really need to ask ur self why did u sleep with ur ex was it 4 sex or do u still feelings 4 him if not then put it down 2 a mistake explaine 2 him that uv moved on + sex wont happen again if you can put it 2 the back of ur mind + move 4ward with urlife.

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A male reader, Napoleon +, writes (23 April 2006):

Napoleon agony auntYou're going to have to be honest with your boyfriend. If your ex wants you back he's probably going to tell your current bf and if he finds out about it from him it'll be a lot worse.

Of course you really must explore the reason(s) why you slept with him if you have any hope for your current relationship. Good luck.

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A female reader, chachacha United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2006):

Why did you sleep with him? You didn't say that he forced himself on you - so did you secretly want him to?

If you really don't want him, make sure that he doesn't have access to such a situation again - don't have him to stay - have him take your son out and then return him.

Consider carefully whether you want to tell your boyfriend - if not, then your punishment is to carry this secret yourself. And make sure it doesn't happen again.

Good luck

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