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Prosecuting Attorney specializing in the prosecution of Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault and Stalking cases. I have received extensive training on the dynanics of interpersonal relationships, abnormal personality traits/disorders and substance abuse counseling. |
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Where can my bf get help for his anger problems??
Q. Hi, My boyfriend has got anger problems, hes fine until we have an argument and then he starts to push me and he has grabbed me by the throat before. I would like to help him... but where can he go??I have sent him to his local docter and that was...
A. 1 May 2006: Your bf may be a domestic violence batterer. Certainly from what you have described, he has committed domestic violence batteries against you and his grabbing of your throat would be prosecuted as a violent felony where I live. Trying to choke ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to end our marriage as she found someone else. What should I do?
Q. My wife wants our relationship to end after 9 years of marrage. She obviously wants someone else. I don't want it to end but she gets upset and angry when I let her know this. I don't know what has made her decide this exactly and she wont tell me ...
A. 29 April 2006: First I would suggest trying to talk to her about marriage counseling and indicate your willingness to change anything you are doing wrong. Also try to talk to her family members or close friends. They may have some idea of what's going on with ... (read in full...)
He's in jail because of me, but now I miss him!
Q. I am in a relationship that has lasted four years. my partner has been abusing me starting four months into the relationship. we have a two year old child. my partner has an alcohol addiction. I have had a restraining order since I was pregnant. ...
A. 29 April 2006: For the past two years I have been assisting victims and prosecuting domestic violence offenders and what I have learned in that time is that these types of relationships are very complicated and there are multiple shades of gray. First off, mos... (read in full...)
Don't want to be a homewrecker, but I think I love my workmate..
Q. I am considering trying to start a relationship with someone I work with. We are both public officials in a small community who work together - but not in the same office. The only problem is that she is married with three kids and I'm not anxious ...
A. 27 April 2006: Cold shower taken! Yeah I think I just needed some reinforcement to make the right decision. Leave well enough alone. She would have far more to lose than I do and that would be very selfish. But is it not human nature to be just a little bit ... (read in full...)
My bf cheats and verbally abuses me but I am worried our daughter will resent me!!!
Q. My Bf and I are on the verge of splitting up, he has been cheating on me and although promises it's all finished, I dont see how we can get through this. The problem is, we have a 10 month old daughter. And I'm so worried in later life she'll r...
A. 23 April 2006: Your bf need domestic violence counseling. verbal abuse is domestic violence and is just as bad or even far worse than physical violence because some emotional wounds do not heal.
You must not stay in a relationship in which you are abused -... (read in full...)
I slept with the father of my son but I dont want to be back with him and dont want to hurt my bf!!
Q. What am i going to do? Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months and love him to pieces.My sons father came over and stayed the night and i ended up sleeping with him. He told me he cares for me and would like us to get back together but i dont want ...
A. 23 April 2006: You're going to have to be honest with your boyfriend. If your ex wants you back he's probably going to tell your current bf and if he finds out about it from him it'll be a lot worse.
Of course you really must explore the reason(s) why you slep... (read in full...)
I feel like an idiot and my self-esteem is zero! All because he watches Porn. Advice needed
Q. Should my partner view porn on line know that we live together?? I am not a prude, have owned a vibrator, have watched porn with my partner but for some reason i thought that once we moved in together, personal satisfaction would not be required so ...
A. 23 April 2006: Your feelings about his porn activites are important and you must not ignore them. However, his viewing pornography is not necessarily an unhealthy thing (unless he's addicted to porn and/or viewing child porn). Sexual fantasy remains even in ... (read in full...)
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