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writes:I've been at my job for a while and just over a month ago a new manager started. From the first time we meet i was attracted to him, there was a bit of subtle flirting for a week then we went out one night after work ended up getting drunk and sleeping together. we did this a few times after but the people we work with started to notice so we spoke about it and he didnt want everyone knowing because he's my boss.We've slept together once since then and all of a sudden he's stopped showing interest. tonight after work he was flirting and kissing another woman we're friends with right infront of me and i think we stayed. I don't know how to deal with this because i really like him. any advice would be great! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): I think he is compensating for the awareness of your affair by the others - trying to put some 'obvious' ''im into everyone ...not just one particular person' signals out there...
be cool
be centred
send him a few sexy texts inviting him to meet you at some obscure location and compliment him in a way that is unique to you (nothing crazy just subtle) and see if he responds.. if he does great, if not... you have your answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): work relationships are never a good idea to begin with, simply because they are hard to maintain while keeping up with your job.
it seems like this guy was just trying to have sex with you, and toy with your emotions by flirting with another girl.
find someone better, he seems like a complete jerk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): I do feel sorry for you but as others say if you lay it on the plate for him and use alchohol as an excuse then yes he will see you as an easy time and as others say he is a away stroking his ego and looking for his next conquest. Forget him he is not really genuine is he, just a bit of self gratification at your expense and feelings. He knows you can't do much the ball was always in his court.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (5 February 2009):
 Unfortunately, you were apparently his passing shag for awhile, and will likely just become backup when he decides. If you would like to maintain his attention, because as you say, you really "like" him, then offer him sexual treats that he may not currently be receiving. Oral sexual satisfaction is one possibility, if not already provided, or on the other hand, you could decide that you have merely been used and move on.
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